In this thread, Least Original Username Ever once again regales us with yet another tale of what a horrible person his mom (or, as he lovingly refers to her, “female birth giver”) is.
It wouldn’t be worth a pitting on its own, except that this is a part of a pattern where he constantly complains about his mom on this board (whereas, of course, his dad apparently walks on water). It comes on the heels of this thread in which he shares with us the injustice of how his mom offered to make him a sandwich using salami that had gasp been in the freezer for a long time.
You know, when my mommy stopped cutting the crusts off the sandwiches she made for me, I was so mad that instead of just posting about it on a messageboard I…well, I moved out of her house and started making my own damn sandwiches!
Yes, that’s right folks: He hates his mom so much, yet he he still lives in the same house with her even though he is apparently in his mid twenties. If you follow that link, you’ll notice that he feels he shouldn’t have to live by her rules in spite of living in the same household.
Gee, I can’t understand why you two don’t get along!
All this whining about how you hate your mom makes you sound like some pathetic teenager who’s just been grounded.
Guess what? Your parents don’t owe you ANYTHING once you are adult.
If I were your mom and you talked that way to me, you would have been out on your ass on your 18th birthday, kid.
The fact that your actual mom still does make an effort to do things for you (even though, of course, it’s never enough by your standards) shows that she does still love you in spite of your shitty treatment of her. I hope someday you grow up enough to show some appreciation for that before it’s too late.
From your reference to how you’re close to accepting yet more help from Good Ol’ Mom to get into the dating scene, I assume that somewhere deep down you do harbor hopes of emerging from the dark confines of your parents’ basement to actually get a life of your own. So let me let you in on a little secret: A lot of women look at how a man treats his mom as an indication of how he’ll treat his wife.
Good luck getting any woman who hears you calling your mom your “female birth giver” to agree to become your “female semen receptacle”.
Yes, I know what you’re going to say: “You don’t know the whole story!”. I realize some parents truly are bad. Of course I don’t think truly abusive parents deserve any respect. But since LOUNE shared with us even little details like his mom’s horrible chemical warfare against him, somehow I doubt that he just forgot to mention the part where she beat him everyday with a belt or raped him when he was a toddler.
And even if she were truly an awful person, there comes a time when you need to grow up and get over it. If your parents are truly toxic influences on you, then move away and don’t give them your new address instead of continuing to whine about how bad they are from your little hideout in their basement. Nobody said life was fair and that everyone gets a perfect set of perfect parents to guide them through life. Once you’re an adult, it’s no longer your mommy’s fault if you’re still a fuck-up.
), and your advice is sound. LOUNE, you really do need to fly on your own. Not only do some people not get perfect parents, it has come to my attention that just about NOBODY gets perfect parents. We all have our baggage coming out of childhood, and we all need to find a way to let go of it and get on with the business of having a life. The details aren’t actually all that important.