After the initial thrill...

Well…I decided to toss my hat into the dating ring yet once again 3 weeks ago. It was a blast. Not too often I find a guy that’s genuinely into me as this guy was. 21 yr old med student…very nice, and intelligent. Seemed to have is head screwed on right. Yet, in the course of the 3 weeks…he became slightly more distant, but then would bounce back and be all into me, and repeat this behaviour. All the while…its as though he was looking for me to give him a reason to end the courtship…as if he were testing me.
So saturday night I guess I finally gave him his excuse to get out. I was disappointed that he wasn’t staying over with me that weekend like he said he would. Apparently that was reason enough to end our friendship, our dating, and dishonour all the fun we did have. Yes I was hurt, but I had anticipated this. The boy very much had issues…hell he had a lifetime subscription! So anyways…chalk up another casualty…another lesson learned. Drama…leave me be the next time…you may darken someone elses door now.

I’ve always made the best of whatever I’ve had. Sometimes it’s just a fling, sometimes a couple weeks, or longer. Just kinda roll with it, if your looking for commitment I’d really try to get to know the other as a person first. It sometimes gives you a better idea of what they would be like to actually date. Thats what I try to do anyway.

I don’t know what this guys deal was though. It kinda sounds like he wanted to get close to you, but maybe was afraid too, of being hurt? Just a guess.