I invited a friend I’ll call “Desi” out to breakfast this morning. When I was on the phone with her asking her to breakfast she turns to her mom and asks: “hey do you want to go out to breakfast” She then asks me “can my mom come along?” She put me on the spot so I say OK
Fine, she’s a friend, there’s absolutely no romantic interest on either of our parts.So moms can come along, no problemo. She then says “OK we’ll be on walking along the road to the store meet us Ok?” IOW I’ll pick them up,then we’ll go from there,or so I think. I see them walking along and she’s got her FREAKIN DOG with her. Am I a dog hater? No I have a dog. She wanted me to go to her place and wait outside for her. It’s a 20 min walk to and from the store from her house (30 min min with a untrained pup(BIG pup)). And her dog is not getting in my car, she knows this.
So IOW I’m supposed to sit in my car in the hot weather for who knows how long and wait for her, her mother (who she invited). So I leave and eat breakfast with a buddy, without a word. Oh BTW she stood me up for breakfast yesterday. Oh and she tried to call when we were eating, I didn’t answer.
Was I justified in being miffed and leaving without a word? Or was I being a petty jerk?