Ok, there’s this chick I’m considering going out with.
She’s like really thin, very attractive, I’ve know her for awhile so I already know what she is like.
So why can’t I get those special feelings for her, she has already made it more than obvious that she wants me, but (uncharacteristic of what people on the SDMB may think) I haven’t done anything with her sexual. Because it’s not all about sex. Sex is just something fun to share with someone.
What I want/need is someone to love I haven’t been able to find that for a long time. Everyone I talk with sparks sometimes fly, but it’s not that mushy love. I know this sounds odd ecspesially coming from me, but I had this long ago (2 years), and I was completely satisfied. I know that is what is missing but I can’t seem too find it anywhere. A chick friend of mine said “love finds you when you aren’t looking for it” or something like that. Well is that my problem? Should I just let go, and see if it happens with this girl in time?
We’ve hungout for awhile we know who each other are, so there’s not the chance we would get bored of each others personalities or anything like that, we are already friends the only thing is she is really clingy.
Her and her last boyfriend, had to get a proctoligist, after they broke up because they were so stuck up each others @sses. I’m not so sure that would be good starting off a new realationship.
I don’t know what to do?
I am kinda lonely but, I don’t want to be in a pointless relationship where sex is at the center. I’ve done that for awhile, in fact I think that is why I wanted Jill (if you know who she is from previous threads) so badly, I knew with her we had alot in common and we’d be able to have a friend and a lover.
Well anyway I bear my love life in front of the SDMB for advice, yet again.