Ambivalid

Everyone prejudges, but not everything is bigotry.

Disparaging people? Refusing service? Bigotry.

Assuming someone might need help? Not bigotry.

What about the old-fashioned “Boy Scout helps little old lady across the street” story? Is the Boy Scout bigoted for assuming she needs help? If a man holds a door open for a lady, is he “bigoted”, since he might be assuming she can’t do it herself?

Of course not.