Is it just me, or is the general sexual atmosphere starting to lean towards sadomasochistic/violent elements?
Of course the average person has always had their cache of fantasies, most of which they never act out on, but I’ve been hearing a lot of really wild stuff lately…
While in vacation, I met a girl in a bar who was celebrating her 21st birthday. I had a few drinks with her, and thought things were going pretty well in the courtship sense. When the subject of sex came up as a conversation topic, like it always does in a good encounter, she said rather secretely to me that she enjoys rough sex.
Who doesn’t? I replied.
Well, she said she needed something “extra”, and she pretty much shocked me by telling me she likes to get slapped, spit on, choked, pissed on, and God knows whatever the hell else.
Nothing happened, of course, not only because I was fairly repelled by her desires, but because some Texan in a WWF shirt stole her attention from me.
Thinking this girl was a odd duck indeed, once I was back home I told people I know about her.
The responses I got were pretty unexpected.
Out of the males I talked to, probably 50 percent had engaged in rough sex similar or comparable to the extreme this girl was interested in, and nearly 70 percent said they’d had fantasies about it.
As for the females, probably 20 percent had engaged in something similar, and another 20 percent admitted they had fantasies about it.
Just to clarify, we’re not talking about run-of-the-mill rough sex, with your hairpulling and ass slapping, which practically everyone’s done and enjoyed at some point…we’re talking about extreme roughness and degradation. The element of violence in this is pretty alarming.
A general trend? A passing fad, much like female bisexuality?