It has been 5 years in August. The sex resulted in an unwanted pregnancy. I’m not about to make the same mistake again. I am waiting til I marry,as I believe its a sin outside of marriage.
Out of morbid curiosity, do you also consider contraception a sin?
Some drink at the fountain of knowledge…others just gargle.
::grumble::
I can’t quote to save my life!
No,of course not. I am speaking for myself only here,ya know.
Ok…ok…to be fair… I think we are gonna have to split this up in two categories… there will now be the terminally virgin category…and the been there, done that… haven’t seen the t-shirt in longer than I remember category. heads off to the trophy store to purchase another golden statue
“Only when he no longer knows what he is doing, does the painter do good
things.” --Edgar Degas
I think you need a third category: married or involved, yet still not doing it.
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O p a l C a t
www.opalcat.com
Darn, why do you guys have to burst my bubble 
I want to believe that everyone who is married is at least enjoying sex–I’d like to think there is the possibility that people are enjoying their marriages on all levels!
Depressing, boo hoo hoo 
I’ll admit my first thought was that if OpalCat and Undead Dude don’t have a tie score, there’s gonna be trouble.
Does anyone’s physical company include yourself?
It’s easy to calculate the elapsed period because the last time was Jan 1, 1999. For some reason I only seem to get laid when I have a hangover.
Sigh. Ain’t happenin’ tonight. Yeah, yeah, it’s my anniversary. But I forgot that he has to work tonight. Oh well. Good thing I didn’t tell him I was thinking about it, eh? Geez. I’m going to have to call my dad and ask him to take my kids for a day or two, just so I can have a throwdown with my husband.
Oh well…he did get me flowers and a really nice card!
Rysdad… I do believe self was disqualified along with phone and cyber sex. Nice try tho.
Cristi… I do believe if I was in your shoes I would be calling that man of yours for some wild phone sex. Damn woman if you wait around for it passively it aint never gonna come!
“Only when he no longer knows what he is doing, does the painter do good
things.” --Edgar Degas
Well, I guess I can claim two separate periods. Deliberate celibacy, for the last three or four years. Before that there was a year or two of just not getting laid. The events which made the difference was having to really decide not to have sex, something that men don’t often have to do. Then figuring out how to do it without hurting someone’s feelings was also a big time issue.
On a side issue, what is it about not wanting to have sex that makes you light up in “please seduce me” lights? I mean, really, for a whole lot of years, I would have willingly had sex with any woman who actually mentioned it out loud. That didn’t happen; not ever. Then I realized that I had decided not to be sexually involved, and since then I run about two or three outright propositions a year. It’s spooky.
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Really, Tris?
I want it to be known, here and now, that I don’t want sex! I especially do not want sex with Heather Graham. No way. Uh-uh.
Opal and Suzeanne, you’re depressing the hell out of me.
No wonder Brian doesn’t want to get married!
I used to think the world was against me. Now I know better. Some of the smaller countries are neutral.
Ah, the anonymity of the Internet. Try getting your friends to stand up in a café and yell out, “I haven’t had sex in twenty years!”
Way to liven the computer experience, Purple.
You’ll come for the crack. You’ll stay for the whore.
Or maybe the whore will come for you. I can’t remember.
-BrainWeasel
Squeaks from BrainWeasel’s Cage
http://brainweasel.home.att.net
This thread has made me promise not to bitch about the fact that I haven’t gotten laid since August anymore.
Hell, at least I can see a light at the end of the tunnel.
OMG. Chalk up another reason for me not to get married. I get ancy when I dont get any for a month let alone 2 or 5 or 30 years??? That is just insane. Question for the married born again virgins…how does your partner feel about not getting any ever…or do you know that they are not getting any? =)
Argle bargle. Just READING this thread makes my ovaries hurt. Once I went six weeks without sex, & I really almost died.
When you’re not doing It, do you, like, compensate with lots of solo sex, or does the urge just go away if you ignore for long enough?
32 years & 2 months and counting!
(Unless you’re not supposed to count the
13 years before puberty). You know, Isaac
Newton died at 84, still a virgin! I’ve half a mind to try for the record