As my hair gets more and more grey, it has occurred to me that I’m going to have to lighten up from my current practice of dying it back to chocolate brown some day, since I don’t want to be one of those wrinkled old ladies with unnaturally dark brown hair.
My question to the hair professionals (or people with experience in this) is - how do I get my salt-and-pepper hair lighter without going orange or brassy? In my experience, if I just bleach it a little, it will go orange, and I would prefer something ashy, not brassy - something like this light brown shown here.
Do I have to actually go to a salon to do this? Is this one of those times when I really shouldn’t be trying to do this myself?