Well an odd thing I have noticed is that people especially women play relationship games such as playing hard to get and someone would try to impress a woman or ask her out but she wouldn’t seem to be interested and someone would say Oh yeah she’s playing hard to get and then a man would have to try harder to get her to be interested in him and it is difficult enough to get a partner so does anyone know people who do this or why they do this? Also in relation to sex of course people want to get married and have sex but some people do things that are a bit odd such as younger women or teenagers at parties where they meet boys and they invite them to parties, wear sexy clothes, entice them to kiss and then send them packing and alot of this done by girls can be very confusing for boys but I want to know more about why girls do this and play various games like this and also some people like to talk to people who are interested in certain women and say She’s way out of your league it might be because they really think she is or just to annoy the other person and why people want to have sex but play games to make it difficult for them to get with them and are there different reasons for it and things like this?
No, but I am an adult who appreciates punctuation.
Dude. Really?
Who can really understand why young people play the games they play? They just do.
Don’t generalize. All ‘women’ ( not girls) are different.
You clean up, smell nice. Act appropriately and never EVER think a woman owes you attention or sex and you’ll find a partner.
I once knew a girl who didn’t immediately offer to have sex with me as soon as we kissed. That’s what we’re talking about, right?
I have one piece of advice/comfort/wisdom to offer here. It’s what I said to my son when a girl urged to come to a dance, and then completely ignored him.
“Some girls try on boys like they do clothes. There were probably six other guys there she treated the same way.”
Cripes, did it ever occur to you that they aren’t “playing games” but trying to learn the rules of the game? Jeebus, this drives me nuts. Some idiots think females were born knowing how to read what men want and know automatically how to get what they want for themselves. Well, they don’t. They’re just learning, which is why the hell you should a) be open and honest yourself, b) approach cautiously, let them know your standards, and ask them their standards, and c) consider opting out to stay home and study punctuation instead. It might help.
I was actually quite shocked to see that join date. I was sure it was going to be less than 2 months old.
OR, when she acts uninterested, she may actually be uninterested. Crazy concept, I know.
If a woman seems like she’s constantly flirting but doesn’t want anything more, ask her what’s up. Ask her if she’s interested or not. Then you have your answer. If she isn’t really interested but enjoys flirting (it’s not uncommon for either sex to enjoy flirting without intent), let her know if you’re uncomfortable with it. If she is actually playing head game, there’s no obligation for you to play, as well.
That said, most people aren’t assholes, and don’t have any desire to frustrate another person. Use your big boy words and ask if she’s interested.
There are lots of people, of all genders, who sometimes want to kiss somebody without then immediately proceeding to have sex. This is particularly likely to be true of teenagers, who may be ready to kiss but not yet ready to have sex with anybody at all; but can apply to people of any age, who may want to proceed gradually while getting to know the person so they can decide whether they do want to proceed any further.
Where on earth did you get the idea that wanting to kiss automatically should mean wanting to have sex?
And if she acts uninterested, probably she isn’t interested, and no you should not keep on ‘trying harder’. That’s harassment.
And yes. Punctuation is your friend. And if you ordinarily talk like you write: take a breath now and then. People may be more likely to listen.
I was betting on today, so you can imagine *my *shock. :smack:
His threads all have the same M.O: Rambling semi-coherent punctuation free sentences that could be much more concise. At least the topics vary.
Also, he never posts in anyone else’s thread or comes back to his own, so I hope you’re not waiting for a reply.
Or she didn’t know what to do after that. Or he was shy didn’t talk to her. Or he insulted her, accidentally or not. There could be a million different reasons, yet you chose to lead with “Girls be bitches”. Thanks a lot.
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Your characterization, not mine.
I think he’s just playing hard to get.
Fer real? Are you 16 years old, and have time-travelled from the 1970’s?
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Ahhh the “have sex” game. Where a woman feigns interest by taking you home and sleeping with you.
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Attack the post, not the poster. This isn’t the Pit.
Sorry, NM.