Mrs. RickJay says size matters to her too, but that she always valued WIDTH, not length.
Ist wife was a medical researcher. Had that urge to quantify and analyze, I guess. She did, indeed, whip out the tape measure.
This looks like the beginning of a beautiful friendship.
But, you know, beautiful in a non-gay checking out all the other guys penises way.
Yeah, I guess I do check out other penises when I have the chance but I don’t find then anymore “attracttive” than an average size penis. If it looks average, 6" and up it, I kind of look more than I should. This coming from a heterosexual guy who has experimented but still grants people their privacy and doesn’t gawk at them, both male and female, like some over sexed perv.
Speaking for the skinny guys with big feet, cynic, stop violating my privacy! :mad: According to the few studies I’ve seen, it is the flaccid length stretched that correlates to size, not what you’re looking at.
Any way, I figure mine is noticeable large, cause every where I go I hear “There goes a big pr$ck!” 
ok ok…heres the deal, i’ll say fag when i damn well please. you wanna know why i feel i can, because i’m bisexual, i find men attractive. i like the male sex organ. but, i love women as well and i’m not yourtypical faggoty fairy. i could care if the word is accepted, it doesnt hurt my feelings when its used.
i thank you all for the feedback. juanita, i wouldnt be worried about a chick that likes a large penis, i like them too. i figuered most people check them out. i dont actually stare at a urinal, it is rude, but sometimes its just in you field of vision.
This is kind of a hijack, but there needs to be some talk on acceptable use of “offensive” slang. Just because you like dick doesn’t mean that it’s ok for you to use the word fag as an insult, especially when you make it clear you look down on “typical faggoty fairies.” I don’t object to the standard insult words being used in a friendly manner, by members of those groups or not… it’s all about intent, and you should know that you’re out of line, bisexual or not.
Out of line? Give me a break. You mean to tell me i f I were black and saying nigger, you would tell me how I could incorporate that word into a put down or joke? It is ok for me to use fag in any way I see fit. I am not out of line and I’m sorry you see it that way. I could maybe see it that way if I was directly calling someone a fag with the intent of hurting them. I am using the words to describe a group of girlish men, it isn’t saying how I feel about them in general. How you got I look down on them is beyond me. That is your bagage , dont project.
It isn’t about baggage, it’s more about respect. How are we to know how you mean it? (Not to mention you’ve said a few things that do seem down on gay people.)
Although you say you’re allowed to use it because you’re bisexual (although, “not your typical faggoty fairy”, you so eloquently add), it doesn’t mean we’re barred from feeling uncomfortable about it.
It’s a loaded word, much like “nigger”. It’s much simpler (and more accurate due to the association of those words) to use another term…
I didn’t say or imply you are barred from feeling anything. What I’m saying is that I don’t look down on anyone in the gay community. I said faggoty fairy types to illustrate(to pointout that I dont lisp and walk around on my tip toes). I do not believe I put down gay people, and if I did, darn it all, so what. I’m gay, if I can’t say those things then who can?
If you are offended that is something you must deal with. I will again use freedom of speech and describe a stereotypical member of the gay community a fairy. Maybe I’ll include faggoty, maybe not. I call other gay men fags, fairies, butch, kathy and so on and they laugh. You are getting way to uppity about what I said. Have you honestly ever been around any gay person that didn’t hide themselves? A fag that doesn’t take themselves seriously and isn’t out to shove their lifestyle down anyones throat is a funny, shit talking person indeed.
Bindrah, I’m saying that such language in IMHO is out of line, as are your aggressive postings in this thread.
Knock it off NOW. :mad:
I keep forgetting that arguing a point isn’t allowed in any other forum besides the pit. I will continue it there if anyone is interested…
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Originally posted by cynic
I admit it, I try to check out everybody’s dick whenever I’m in the locker room. Most restrooms have those dividers in between the urinals, making it very difficult to check out someone’s package without him noticing.
And some actually wonder why heterosexual men get hostile toward homosexuals or consider them creepy perverts. Now where did I put my shovel?
I happen to like and respect a lot of people who are typical faggoty fairies. I don’t mind you saying “fag” but mind your manners as far as the fairy-guys go.
So, are we talking about stiffies or non-stiffies? And are we using attractive to mean aesthetically pleasing or arousing?
Personally, I feel no desire to look at a penis that’s not going anywhere, so to speak. Moderate-sized erections are arousing, ginormous ones are a turn-off. And the flaccid penis is just plain silly-looking, in my opinion.
From an aesthetic viewpoint, I’d say that as long as it’s in proportion to the rest of the body, it looks just fine.
I dunno, flaccid penises can be quite fun to look at. They remind me of newborn baby hamsters :D.
Anyway, I’m going to be honest and say I’m a bit of a size queen. Not to put too fine a point on things, but when taking it up the rear, a smaller penis feels a very uncomfortable to me… almost like being jabbed. For the same reason, fingers are a no-no where my butt is concerned. A longer, thicker penis, within reason, is much easier to take IMHO.
It is quite possible to be too big. If a guy comes at me with a penis like a beercan, I’ll quite literally be taking matters into my own hands, because it certainly wouldn’t be going anywhere else. That can be quite disappointing, no matter how nice it is to look at.
This thread has too much potential for off-topic trouble, as shown by Tarantara and even by the individual that started the thread(Bindrah), so I think I’ll just lock it down.