i was wondering about this. forgive me if it has been talked about a million times before. Have you ever glanced over at a urinal because out of the corner of your eye you see a guy flopping his large flaccid penis around, or been in a public shower , had a friend with a large penis and just been plain curious? what is it about larger penises that are visually attractive? guys are you as apt to look as a woman, or do you thinks its for fags?
I’m a woman. I am neither attracted nor repulsed by large genitalia. Take that as you will.
wow. thanks for the imput. is it the way i worded the question or just the topic? i’m not being a jerk, i’m just honestly asking if this is an issue.
Why would a man be attracted to another man’s penis? 
Well, maybe you shouldn’t use the word “fag”?
I’m also not attracted to or repulsed by large male genitalia. I don’t normally seek out porn, so I’m apt to notice a naked penis if I see one (because it would be very out of place, or it would be very “in place”–attached to the person in my bed.) The size wouldn’t matter in those cases, I’m going to notice, period.
The “fags” comment was rude.
Serious response, enter stage left:
I’d say there certainly is a ‘look at that’ response. Most guys don’t see other guys’ penises (or bottoms, or quite possibly chests, etc), so when they do they automatically look. I’d guess an unusual penis, hairy chest, etc would draw the eye in a changing room. I don’t think there’s really anything sexual in that. Though, obviously a gay guy seeing a penis or a straight guy seeing a breast is likely to automatically look for another reason.
Disclaimer 1: staring at anyone else is a big no-no in changing rooms
Disclaimer 2: using the word ‘fag’ is iirc a big no-no in GQ
Fairly recently I had to go to this swim club for a couple of months of physical therapy so I had to change in the locker room. What struck me was the amount of men who would just meander around the locker room naked and strike up small talk with everyone and anyone. There was even a naked guy who sang. And you would think that their “free attitude” would be in direct proportion to their size BUT in reality it was in direct proportion to their AGE. The older they were, the more they wanted to prance around naked.
How this fits into this topic? You work that out.
I have had a few serious relationships with women (I mean those that lasted over years), as well as many, uh. “lighter-hearted” relationships, and the size of respective genetalia has never been an issue.
I doubt this will help you a lot, but there you go, guy…
Yes
I admit it, I try to check out everybody’s dick whenever I’m in the locker room. Most restrooms have those dividers in between the urinals, making it very difficult to check out someone’s package without him noticing. I’m not aroused by the sight of other guys’ penises, I do it mainly to try to determine what the average penis size actually is, and to estimate how far below that average I apparently am.
I’m also checking to see if any of the stereotypes are true. I always make a special effort to try to sneak a peak for guys who meet any of the following criteria:
[ul]
[li] Black guys[/li][li] Guys with big hands/big feet[/li][li] Skinny guys[/li][li] Guys who look like Larry Bird, or who have an otherwise unusual facial appearance[/li][li] Fat guys[/li][li] Asian guys[/li][li] Weightlifter guys[/li][/ul]
I won’t tell you which of the above are true, though, you’ll have to do your own research.
Working in a hospital I see more dicks in a week then I’d ever thought I’d see in my life.
- They’re all pretty much the same size.
- They’re not very attractive.
I’m a heterosexual guy.
chicken neckbones.
I’m the chick you’re worried about. I find small, er, members to be a turn-off. I genuinely prefer (almost insist) my partner to be well endowed.
Cynic: Hey Weightlifter dude! Can I see your penis? Is it true it’s really little?
Doesn’t sound like a good idea to me 
Ok, since you put it out there, so to speak- what’s well endowed for you?
hmm…
big penises are not only visually attractive, they’re physically attractive, too 
Seven inches or more, I suppose. I wasn’t exactly whipping out a measuring tape for each partner, ya know!
Why would looking at a flaccid penis be indictative of it’s true size? Most of the one’s I’ve seen haven’t.
I’m neither attracted to or repulsed by male genetalia. There are much more attactive things on a man to look at.
Ones, not one’s. Ack.