Are we too easily offended?

I’ve noticed lately that my sensitivity is ultra-high about the stupidest things. I find that if I see a commercial with only white actors, I secretly think that there must be some racism. If I see a commercial with a wide variety of ethnicities, I think that it’s stupid and contrived. I’m afraid to admit that I think Britney Spears is hot because of the possible backlash.

I also find that I have opinions about the stupidest things. I think TV shows and movies are idiotic for no good reason.I find myself thinking that this Afghan thing is taking far too long, even though the logical side of me sees that those in the Armed Forces know the situation far better than I.

In my local newspaper, everyday it seems, someone is offended at something new. I’ve seen adults attacking teenagers for admitting that they would be willing to give up a few personal liberties in order to weed out terrorists. I’ve seen other people take the First Amendment in vain (the drafters didn’t mean to protect all speech, you know).

I’m not alone in my hyper-sensitivity. A lot of Pit rants lately are about, in my opinion, pretty lame things. I don’t mean to attack those who posted those threads, but I find a lot of Pit threads to be whining for no good reason.

I’ve seen the Olsen twins attacked. Not only attacked, but people calling for their heads on poles. There’s a thread about those who say “God Bless America.” I see a lot of threads condemning commercials, movies, TV, even football announcers. There’s even a thread about the quality of Nicklodean. I very much want to find these threads moronic, though inside I find myself cheering on those who write the OP’s.

But really, isn’t ranting about these sort of things kind of pathetic? I believe in letting off steam. I believe in ranting just to rant. But, come on. If everyone who posts a pit thread about Old Navy commercials is genuinely disturbed by them… well… that’s just sad.

I believe we should all lighten up. Let’s have a day where we just live and let live. Let’s not scrutinize things far more than they were meant to be scrutinized. Let’s realize that most media is meant for our entertainment, and is not to be taken too seriously. Let’s know in our hearts that the president (though I didn’t vote for him) probably knows more about Afghanistan than we do. And let’s drop this whole Kessel run/Parsecs thing.

I know many others who feel the way that I do. Many blame the political correctness movement. I, for one, embrace all things PC. PC was meant to increase our awareness of different points of view, to realize that others have different outlooks that are as equally valid as our own. Unfortunately, PC has seemed to devolve into a new sort of finger-pointing. Shake off that PC stereotype. Regain some tolerance, and embrace all things different, which was the original focus of the PC movement.

Realize that most people are good. I had a professor who once said that 90% of everyone is good, and the remaining 10% will try to screw you. Realize that these are damned good odds.

And let’s save our rants for things genuinely worth ranting about, instead of any old thing that rubs us wrong.

Let’s all agree to lighten up. After writing this, I’ll volunteer to be first.

Peace, y’all. Forgive me my drunken ramblings. And my liberal use of the comma.

How dare you say that to me.

Most people are I find.
If you can’t take someone turning to you and giving you a smack in the back of the head and a hearty ‘Fuck You’ you need to pull your head out of your ass and check what the hell is going on around you.

I’ve found this message board to be worse than most people for people overreacting then believing that they are god when they try to put them in their place.

Half the damn time its because they only read the rant (ITS A RANT YOU ILLETERATE FUCKERS) until they got offended then got all nazi on their ass. I’m starting to give up on explaining my points now because the people who are attacking me over hypothetical examples don’t want to get it, they just want something to attack

Well, you had it coming.

That was meant for spooje. Damn, you’re fast CRorex.

I take my time in what really matters.

You are absolutley correct.

I am admittedly amused by some of the rantings, but many times, if the people would try reading the whole post, they might just see the sarcasm or outright joke behind it all, and may not need to make a total idiot out of themselves.

Other times, people just overreact.

Maybe it is just not enough sex and way too much sugar and caffeine.

Life is too much fun too waste on anger and hate. Sarcasm and jokes are great though.

Even when I am the brunt of the joke or sarcasm, as long as it is not a nasty hate filled message, I just laugh with them.

But such is life…unfortunately, darwinism does not eliminate the stupid people.

Hell even if it is a long hate filled rant (targeted at me) I find it funny.
The fact that they were willing to waste their life, time and effort to strike back :stuck_out_tongue: And lets face it who cares? In what 3 months the post is buried and everyone but the person who wrote the rant against me has forgotten it, and then you can just burn, burn with your own bitterness

I’ve often felt that way about flames I’ve seen, CRorex. I see people saying “Ooh wait until Such-and-such poster shows up. S/He’s going to make you pay.”

It’s just words on a page from people you don’t really know. How much is that really going to hurt?

Wait. That was out of sync with my new “lighten up” philosophy. Forget what I just said.

And thanks for agreeing Roy. You did bring up two interesting points. Most people are overreacting to their environments. You managed to articulate something I couldn’t.

Also, a lot of people may mean their posts to be sarcastic. Sometimes it’s hard to tell if something’s sarcastic without voice inflection and facial expressions. It’s likely I’m missing a great deal.

Here in today’s Modern America, anything that might slightly offend one single person is considered to be wrong. What we srtive for in today’s Modern America is a clean and healthy, non-offensive society. Therefore, all the fun is taken out of everything, people are given ridiculously long and absurd titles for the most simple jobs and “disabilities”. (We all know that being too tall, too short, wearing glasses and having a large nose is a disability :rolleyes: )

Because after all, if everyone else says it is ok, then it must be correct.

non-offensive=dull

People hate ignorance and intolerance. And the bese weapon in the fight against ignorance and intolerance is ignorance and intolerance.

SDMB excluded of course (but everybody on the boards included)

I’m with royjwood.
I think in the choice between going to the soda (or coffee) machine or ranting like a nut, a lot of people are choosing the latter.

I sometimes wonder if they get their sugar/caffeine fix after they rant and then wonder: ‘Now why the hell did I write that?’

Well color me confused…

Enuma Elish, is it your contention that feeding your need for a habit-forming nutrient (sugar)and/or stimulant (caffeine) is better for your well-being than pounding out some well (or ill)-chosen words on a message board? Or the other way around. I can’t really tell if you’re being sarcastic. :wink:

No comment, I just found this amusing.

Sometimes I long for the days when a kid would wear a t-shirt to school that says some obscene messge, and the offended kids would say “Hey asshole, I don’t like your shirt”. The end.

No law suits, no NAACP, no newsflash- just a disagreement.

I think that today people have lost the ability to “agree to disagree”. Instead, there seems to be a tendency to prove that you are right at any cost, argue to the point of personal insult, and claim superiority.
Zette

This is the most thoughtful and intelligent Pit Rant I’ve ever seen, seriously.

Thanks for the breath of fresh air!

I think what we’re seeing and experiencing (on these boards and in real life) is the “Rats in a Small Cage” effect. Rats that are in a cage that is too small turn vicious towards each other; I think humans living on earth now are starting to feel that same pressure. We have to have many rules so that we can all live together, and we have some people who feel the rules don’t apply to them, and we have other people (like myself) who are upset by the rule-breakers.

:stuck_out_tongue:

I mean its a rant, it supposed to offend someone! If you can read and are over the age of 12 you should be able to tell sarcasm from outright racism ya know?

Sigh

Sing it loud, sister.

A lot of the time I’m reading a post and I have this mental image of the poster chanting, “MUST BE RIGHT! RESPECT ME! I AM RIGHT! MUST BE RIGHT! RESPECT ME! I AM RIGHT!” as they type, sweating feverishly in their passion to object to every single thing they possibly can and be the rightest of them all, in all history, so that everyone will love and adore them and worship their intelligence and say prayers to their complete and utter rightness.

That’s exactly my problem.