20/20 did a report on people who describe themselves as asexual. Some of them say they have had sex, and it was okay, but kind of meh (which, incidentally, is how I feel about it).
Apparently, some people disagree.
The fact that a lot of asexual people have actually had sex and are still saying they don’t miss it seems to have escaped her.
I’m biased towards the asexuals, obviously, because I agree with them that sex, while okay, is not the Grand Glorious Ultimate Pinnacle of Human Pleasure that it’s painted as. Research is lacking in this area, according to the article; the default belief seems to be if you don’t like sex, and aren’t particularly attracted to anybody, male or female, then there’s Something Wrong With You. The asexuals take the view that this is simply the way they are, the same way that gay people are gay and straight people are straight.
So let’s discuss this. There’s a discussion going on at the long hair care board I’m a member of, which is where I found the link, but we’re talking about the redhead chick’s braids (which are gorgeous, BTW), and I’m interested in the topic. What’s your opinion on people who aren’t terribly interested in sex?