First of all, this is my first post after a loooong time of lurking, so please understand if I don’t make any sense. OK.
I’m not crazy about sex. In fact, in my 28 years in this planet I’ve never had it. Never had a boyfriend either. But sometimes I catch myself thinking “If I had a boyfriend, I’d be willing to have sex with him just to please him”. So, does that make me asexual or just a normal woman? Because from what I understand, women don’t love sex as much as men do, that they only really enjoy it if it is with someone the truly love.
So female dopers with average female sex drives, I ask you: How would you feel if someone said to you that you would never meet anyone special, you would never truly fall in love with anyone?
Would you think:
a) OK, well, I guess no sex for me then
b) Ok, well, I guess I’ll just have to have loveless sex because there is no way I’ll abstain from it
c)other (please explain)
I would choose a). I guess I just want to find out if it’s as easy for other women to abstain from sex as it is for me. And if it turns out it is, then I guess I’m not really asexual, I’m just a normal woman.
OK Pressing Submit now. Here goes…