(sighs, grips head to stop throbbing from migraine) Because I didn’t want to get caught up in any more gay/lesbian/transgendered issues debates for a while, that’s why. Just like I keep telling myself I won’t post to any more gun threads either (and yet, I still do for some dumb-ass reason…)
I also, respectfully, disagree strongly with some of your personal life issues you have posted here, but that’s neither here nor there. I think you are an intelligent, well-spoken person who obviously can defend himself very well. You certainly don’t need this lesbian judging you and your life. So I bid you peace.
So why did I even post my wise-ass comment in the first place? Because I was chiding myself publicly, that’s all. Not chiding you.
Oops, I didn’t check out this thread for a couple of days, and somebody asked me a question. Mainly, the reason I’m miserable by having SSA is, it means I will probably never have a normal, hetero relationship with an LDS woman whom I could marry in the temple. This means I’ll never have kids in this life and will have to be celibate or risk losing my LDS membership (unless I find another “Rose” who IS willing to marry in the temple). It also means I will never fit into LDS society. “Fitting in” has always been important to me to some extent.
All of these things add up to one main thing: I can never be happy being immoral.
Please be advised this thread is being continued in the “Ask the Gay Guy III!” thread. If the moderators would be so kind as to lock this thread now. Thanks!