I swear, I hear at least one of these stories a week. I’m starting to think that some parents (OK, mothers) of kids with autism, or other special needs, are setting this up so they can get a free party and a gift grab for their kid, and some sympathetic TV coverage too. And it’s always the police who show up, and often pay for the parties out of their own pockets. The latest one from my area involved renting an entire paintball facility for the child, his family, and the police and their families.
From what I’ve seen of people on the spectrum, which admittedly isn’t all that much compared to many of you, most of them would really just rather have some cake and punch at home with their families, and maybe a single friend or two from the neighborhood or school (if they have them, of course). And why aren’t the parents inviting other autistic kids? You’d think they’d be thrilled to get an invite.
These are often parties where it seems that half the school gets invited, and let’s face it, even the most socially adept child isn’t going to have THAT many guests, nor could many families afford to buy gifts for that many children over the course of a year.
(Lest anyone here think I don’t know anything about this, I was often that one child who wasn’t invited to this or that event, and I was told that parents tell their kids that they can invite everyone on the list, minus one. :rolleyes: Imagine how I felt when I found out that isn’t generally true.)
Has anyone else observed this? Does anyone else think these are more for the parents than for the child(ren)?