Bad, bad, bad Beck has once again arisen from the depths. (My latest travails in healthcare)

When someone hears from her, please let the rest of us know. I’m thinking all the stress can’t be good for her.

And please let her know that we’re all thinking of her. :heart:

That’s sad to hear. Best wishes to the whole family.

I don’t suppose we can send a pizza or something.

Doesn’t dropzone know her IRL?

– and hasn’t been here for a while either, I realize. @dropzone – are you there? do you know if Beck’s OK? and are you OK yourself?

DZ stopped posting soon after the move. He had a bunch of stuff happening and he hated the new platform.

I’d get in touch but an unfortunate accident caused me to lose my contact list. We are at the mercy of the fates

Had to stop and think for a moment, lotta crap going on myself.

The last thing I heard from her was that Sonofwrek was stabilized and out of surgery.
Wish I had more to offer. It’s bugging me too

Ok desperation leads to inspiration. Dug out my old phone on the slim hope that I hadn’t done a factory reset on it yet. Luck and the fates smile upon us, message dispatched to Beck

Thanks, DorkVader.

And please – back up that info someplace! Maybe even write a note?

This just in

I’m so overwhelmed right now. I just can’t think. My Son has had a scary proceedure done. He came through the surgery and will be fine. It’s gonna be a long recovery period. He is, of course sad we can’t see him very much. They won’t even let me in the parking garage. I see him on a screen. His wife and Mr Wrekker get in for about 20 min. each a day.

I told her to not worry, keep taking care of things there and that I’d check with her in a few days

On that note, we need to do something for her, I just don’t know what or how. But her and her family are an integral part of this community as much as any of the past greats were.
Any ideas?

Thanks for finding her and passing news along. It’s a relief.

No ideas, but I keep my thinking cap charged and turned on.

Would you have a chance perhaps just once a day to send her a quick text that we’re all thinking of her and she and her family are not ‘out of sight and out of mind’?

Hey @spoons, can you crank out one of your swell songs and send it to Dork for him to forward to Beck, with our love and hugs?

I can try, Boo, but it may take a while. Let me think a bit.

Since we can’t bring over dinner ourselves, and since they live well outside of where any carryout place would deliver, maybe we can arrange to have something shipped to the house from one of the companies that does frozen overnight deliveries? (Assuming that DorkVader has, or can get, Beck’s actual address.)

I can do that Boo, maybe not once a day though, she has enough going on right now, I want to let her have a little space to focus on her family.

Here is what I’ll do, everyone either post here or pm me message for her and I’ll copy paste them to her all at once on Thursday evening.

I understand we’re all concerned and fretful over her, but I’m also sensitive to her situation right now, having witnessed something similar with my parents in the past. I don’t want to be too intrusive but I do want to do something that will let her know that we’re thinking about and worried about her and her family

Thats why I wish someone other than Beck had a direct line to Dropzone, as far as I know, he’s the only one who actually knows her address.

I’ll see if I can tease something out somehow…

Thank you~you’re thinking this through a lot more smoothly than I had. I leap before looking, so from now on I’ll supply my enthusiasm and you supply the level-headed finesse.

Thank you :notes::musical_note:

Any chance of sending frozen corn dogs?

DorkVader, thanks very much.

Will add something here to pass on to Beck – will try to do it when I’m more awake. Am very glad her son’s expected to recover.

Okay, sometimes these things are easy, and sometimes they are downright impossible. This fell somewhere between those extremes, but was still challenging. I’m proud of parts of this; others I think are a little banal. But I thought I’d post it here for critique and comments, before Dork sends it off to Beck. If he does at all–if we all agree that it sucks, it shouldn’t be sent, right? So let’s get your feedback.

Lean on Us (based on Bill Withers’ "Lean on Me)

Sometimes in our lives we all have pain,
And what kind, depends.
But if we are wise,
We know that we’ve got plenty of friends.

Lean on us; we’re here for you
'Cause we are your friends,
We’ll help you carry through.
For, it won’t be long,
'Til we’ll each need,
Somebody to lean on.

Beck, it’s a tough time,
Should you need help, we can assist,
You’re needed elsewhere, but be aware,
And know that you are missed.

You just call on us Beckster, when you need a hand,
We all need somebody to lean on.
We just might have a problem that you’ll understand,
We all need somebody to lean on.

Lean on us; we’re here for you
'Cause we are your friends,
We’ll help you carry through.
For, it won’t be long,
'Til we’ll each need,
Somebody to lean on.

It’s a real tough load you have to bear,
And you must carry.
But, we’ll help you cope.
So say your friends from the Dope,
We’re here to lean on.

Lean on us; we’re here for you
'Cause we are your friends,
We’ll help you carry through.
For, it won’t be long,
'Til we’ll each need,
Somebody to lean on.

:thinking:Hmmmm, I wonder, perhaps corndog shaped balloon?

Anyway, I have what I think is a strong possibility for her location, now my task is to somehow get her to confirm it when I talk to her next without being obvious about it.
Or I could just be upfront and ask her