Kinda long, I apologize
I have been with my boyfriend, we’ll call him John, for about 9 months now. John is a huge fan of wrestling, especially the WWF. One of wrestling’s former members, Gorgeous George (a rather beautiful buxom woman) made an appearance at a strip club this past Saturday night. John and his buddies all went. I had no problem with John going, as we are very secure in our relationship and I know that strip clubs are more of a social event than a sexual attraction.
Last night, I went over John’s house. I asked him to tell me all about the strip club as I have never been to one and was curious as to what actually happens. He told me very explicit details. John said that the girls put their breasts and asses in the guys’ faces, that they get completely naked, eat each other out, etc.
John told me all this with a look in his eye that before was reserved only for looking at me or recounting things we had done together.
I am a 19 year old college student who is very self conscious. I worry about my body image way more than I know I should. John knows this and has done everything he can to help me get over this and accept my body.
John’s trip to the strip club is making me even more aware of my flaws. The whole point of going to a strip club (in my mind) is to oogle beautiful naked women who probably look a thousand times better than me and will do things that I would never do (like eat each other out).
I have been talking to John for a few hours now and am getting nowhere. He insists that going to a strip club is nothing more than a couple of guys going out & having fun.
I think otherwise.
So tell me wise Dopers of the world, what do you think I should do?
John suggests that I go to a local women’s strip club to see for myself what goes on. I don’t know if that would help matters or just makes things worse.