Birthdays and Memories, A Bittersweet MMP

Mindfield, you have officially made me laugh out loud a bit, therefore prompting NotACelloPlayer to ask me what was I was giggling at. Congratulations, you are officially entertaining. :smiley:

Happy Birthday, mattguy and rigs – may your days have been filled with lots of people showering positive attention on you and, at least in rigs’ case, ushering in an imminent release of certain frustrations. :wink:

And I would just like to add that employment agencies are fickle and nastily flip-flopping beings. One day they tell me they have several temp positions available, and two days later apparently nothing is open at all. Errrrrrgh. grumble, moan, complain and etc.

Huh. I did an online survey about Miller Chill. I haven’t tasted it but have seen the ads. Who, exactly, is going to fall for that idea? Beer with a touch of lime and salt indeed. I’ll take my Corona, thankyouverymuch.

I do like Berry Weiss, though. And cider. Yeah, not much of a beer person.

Sounds like 'rigs needs a drink. Where’s the bartender?

Ooh, a Corona sounds good about now. And a nice looking, thoughtful guy who is disease free, and thinks I’m the best thing ever. That’d be good too. And some privacy. And a nice backrub and foot massage to start the festivities.

We seem to be out of ice–I’ll run out and get some. This is a great party everyone!

Off to get ready for bed. Sadly, it’s only 8pm, but I am really tired tonight. Work in the morning…

(not to rain on my own party, but things are not good here re marriage–like that’s news.)

Hey, it’s my party and I’ll cry if I want to! (not crying over here, but I thought that was funny…)

Mindfield, you wimp! :stuck_out_tongue: I just listened to that sound. You can overcome! I literally had my hand on the remote control, expecting the voice of Satan or something to come out of my computer. You can handle it - go kick some ass!

GT, it looks like we’re going to go see it tomorrow - we’ve got the day off.
All right, I want to tell you guys some serious news that is somewhat better now. A few weeks ago, right after I came home from Colorado, I told you about my brother and SIL splitting up. Well, they had their last major fight on a Sunday. On that very Friday, my SIL went to the doctor. She’s been having trouble with her periods all her life, and, more so lately.

Well, they found uterine cancer.
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Noone Special **knows it was a fairly tough time for me - I even bit his head off once or twice via e-mail. I only just recently renewed relationships with my family, and this cousin-brother, SIL, and my aunt are the ones I really love. This particular aunt gave me more mother’s love than my bio mom or adopted mom did. And I know she loves my SIL very much - it’s a long story, but they’ve known each other for years.

Anyway all thoughts of separating were dropped. Brother said to SIL “I’ll leave when you want me to but as long as you need me I’m right here beside you. Put everything aside and let’s just take care of your health.”

First doctor was totally panic-stricken and wanted her to come in for surgery the following Wednesday and get a complete hysterectomy. He told her he didn’t know where the cancer had spread and wouldn’t know “until we cut you open”. Btw, my SIl’s 48, not old. They got scared. They talked about it over the weekend and decided to get a second opinion.

They were so scared they didn’t even tell me this - my brother phoned me from work to tell me, and to tell me not to mention it to them until they did first. So I didn’t.

My SIL called the gyno she had in NY, and asked her and faxed her all her results. This gyno said “the other doctor’s panicking, calm down, it’s not spread, let’s find out more, go to this doctor I know.”

They got a second opinion. Second doctor says, “It’s only in your uterus and we can probably remove it laparoscopically , etc.”

They got less scared and got a third opinion of a doctor who said the same thing.

So now they are going toward the end of this month - the earliest appointment they could get - to begin prelim things for the procedure. My aunt’s going to be OK, we think, once we get it taken care of.

It’s been a rough month for me, not being able to call them up and comfort them or say a darn thing. I talked to them a couple of times, and last weekend when I called them, they confessed the whole thing. I’d been getting regular updates from Brother, but I knew the fear was lessened if they were actually telling me.

Thanks for letting me vent about it…


Rigs, sorry to hear about your hubby. Here, pours another drink Down the hatch!

The only problem with the way you strung those words together, Mork, is that even though the Hellspawn Ice Cream Truck has apparently skipped my neighborhood for several days now, I can still hear that godawful tune echoing through my head. Aaugh! Make it STOP!!!

Papa Tigs got home from work about 6:30 (he had a loooong day, since he leaves the house at 5:15 a.m.) and sat down on the sofa to take a nap – and finally woke up at about 9:15. Alice and I were tiptoeing around the whole time trying not to wake him up, and we actually succeeded; even the Idiots didn’t wake him up at 9:00, otherwise known as the Sacred Hour of the Dog Biscuit. We done good. Who knows if he will sleep tonight, of course – but something tells me he will, he’s thatt tired. At least he’s finally started physical therapy for his pinched nerve; he’s enjoying it thus far, finds it a nice naptime. :smiley:

It’s cooled down enough here that we’ve got the windows open! Yay, fresh air! I can’t wait to sleep in fresh air tonight instead of air conditioning. That’s one big thing about summer around here that I love, the fact that while it’s often pretty warm, it also cools off occasionally so we don’t have to leave the AC on 24/7 for six months at a stretch. Which is especially since since our electric bills took a jump of over 100% this month. That’s right, a 100% increase. It truly boggles the mind.

Sorry to hear about your SIL, Mika. I hope she gets the surgery done ASAP.

will she need chemo/radiation? I am glad for them if the separation is off.

Off to bed, really–got derailed by that suicide thread in the Pit.

Y’all gotta read this.

I can’t believe nobody has taken care of this yet!

You Will Grow In Wisdom With Each Passing YearIn bed!

Your Willingness To Accommodate Others Will Gain You Great FavorIn bed!

<snerk!> :smiley:

{{{{{{mika and family}}}}}

Yah for Rosie!

'Mika, my thoughts will be with you and your family.

Yay, rosie! Good for you!

Mika, sending out good thoughts and prayers for SiL right now.

((((rigs))))

Bath and off to bed. I got my vacation pay today, which was nice, but work was boring.

Sorry, I missed your post while I was writing mine, Meeks – I hope things go well for your SIL and she recovers completely.

Yay, BioRosie! I know how you feel – just last week, for the first time since my surgery, I walked up and down several flights of stairs and didn’t even think about it – no pain, no major popping, just trotting up and down stairs like a normal person! Wowzers!

Tigs - if we ever meet in person, we’ll have a foot race :slight_smile:

Happy Birthday, rigs!!

I waited for the temptation to say it last night passed, but now you’re already in bed, so you won’t even see this. Oh well, it’s the intention, right? I hope you had a great day.

doggio, tell me when you’re driving and I’ll stay off the sidewalk too.

Dotty, I’m glad your baby is better.

Rebo, thanks for posting the Hello song. I’m with meeks on this one. Mork, the song just isn’t that bad. . . it was kinda cute in places. Granted, the hello part is a little freaky, but it’s so short. Great story, though. You definitely are a great writer.

manx, welcome to the MMP.
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rigs**, you throw a great party. Lots of new people this week. . . and the food was great!

Sorry to hear about your computer stuff disappearing, though! And on your birthday, too. That’s just not right!

And you’re not sharing your TMI in the MMP? What’s that about?!

gotti, if you remember IBM PC XT’s, you must remember Pong! Can you imagine that people sat in front of pong for hours?! It’s inconceivable now that anyone would watch something that slow anymore.

rosie, congrats to you on the standing and singing thing.
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Special1**, my standing Good night to you as always! Have a good morning. And what do you do to relax? :stuck_out_tongue:

Thanks all for your sympathies and virtual hugs. :slight_smile: That’s what I needed!

My dumbbox is dumber than usual, so no bullcast today :frowning:

Therefore I’ve decided to catch up first, you gotta keep your priorities straight.

Meeks, I agree that it’s a dumb thing to do. We, collectively, agree that it’s a dumb thing to do. But so are mountain climbing, skydiving and sex with strangers. This just happens to be “our” dumb thing to do. We’ve also been known to jump over bonfires on Midsummer Eve…

I hope things get better for your family - both cancer-wise and emotional-stress-wise.

Mork, my first line of Spanish is actually pretty traditional. The creative versions of that same insult can go for several minutes, detailing the defects of every known and unknown ancestor for several generations, plus the priest who baptised them (and his ancestors), the teachers who taught them, the farmers who fed them, etc.

Dotty, your little gumdrop is absolutely edible! She’s so cuuuute! I love the picture at the pool. I’m so glad for your mother’s good reflexes.

Rosie, yay on the knee!
No bullcast but hey, I’m not going to let you go without your bit of culture!

OK, so what do people do in Sanfermines?

Well, uh, they let bulls loose in the streets and drink and get loud.

You know, that doesn’t quite fill 8 and a half days…

Some other activities and shows:

The fiesta begins on July 6th, at noon. People fill (and by fill, I mean that sardines in a can look at that and feel comfy by comparison) City Hall Square, wearing their fiesta clothes except the key piece, a red bandanna around their neck. The bandannas are traditionally (and actually, most even nowadays) silk; they may be embroidered or printed (but of course embroidered is a lot more elegant and lasts better) with the coat of arms of your town, or the logo of your peña… or of the bar that was giving them away. At noon, the guest of honor (usually one of the city councilors) yells “¡Pamploneses! ¡Viva San Fermín!” (with variations due to bilingualism and PCness): “People of Pamplona! A cheer for St Fermin!” and lights the rocket whose explosion indicates the beginning of the fiesta. People then tie their bandannas (which they’ve been holding aloft while the guest speaks and the rocket shoots up) around their necks and the fiesta begins.

You can be wearing anything you fancy: goth getup, a Chanel cocktail dress, a military uniform. If you have that red bandanna around your neck, you’re saying “it’s fiestas!” My brother had an interview in Pamplona during Sanfermines a couple of years back. Most of the other candidates couldn’t even be located, being on vacation. We don’t live in Pamplona itself. He went to the interview in full getup of white and red: cheap-but-new white T-shirt, 6€ white jeans, white sneakers, red cotton sash, red silk bandanna. The interviewer laughed out loud and said “I see you plan on staying around after the interview,” then opened a drawer to show him the white-and-reds he had stashed there. Bro replied “hey, since I’m coming up here, it’s compulsory to spend the day or I’d lose my Navarrese ID!*, I’ve already set with my cousins where to meet with them after this.” They spent several minutes discussing the merits of a faded sash (the one my brother was wearing was my grandfather’s before being Dad’s) vs a new one… And yes, brother got the job, a good first impression is essential, right? :smiley:

  • there is no such thing as a “Navarrese ID”

Something that starts even before is la tómbola de Cáritas. I’m not even sure how to translate tómbola. A tómbola is a game of chance, where you buy tickets and based on either individual tickets or combinations thereof, you win prizes. This one also has some which say “number 54689 for BMW #3” and that’s your ticket for a raffle for a monster bike. For some reason, the numbers for the cars don’t, but those for the bikes prompt people to say “bRRMM, BRRRmmmmMM!” The prizes are donated and there’s all kinds of stuff. One year I won some kitchen utensils, a can of peaches, a four-sittings set of dishes and a very large handbag. Mom won a handcrafted vase (from Cáritas “talleres ocupacionales”, craft shops that are part of rehab therapy), two coffeetable books about two different Spanish regions and some color pencils which I promptly traded her for the kitchen utensils. If you’re ever there, remember: there’s this kind of games at the fair too, but the benefits for this one go directly to charity! Everybody at this tómbola is also a volunteer. The tómbola is set up at the beginning of Avenida Sarasate, at the feet of this lady who represents Navarrese Law and Traditions.

And the picture brings us to another tradition: the fireworks. Every night, with serious competition for the Best in Fair prize. They’re national suppliers; there’s been talk of bringing in some Chinese or American but normally anybody who mentions that idea gets surrounded by such a silent circle of :eek: :o :dubious: that he starts mumbling, says was just an idea… and doesn’t mention it again in years, if ever.

The other pic in that album is the end of the Fiesta. On the cusp of midnight between July 14th and 15th, the people take off their bandannas and sing “oh, poor me, the fiestas are over”. The traditional farewell after this is something that people from the area say all year 'round when someone’s bummed: “¡bueno! ¡pues ya falta menos pál glorioso San Fermín!” “ok, so less left to wait until the next Feast of St Fermin!”

Yes, only… 358 days :smiley: Or perhaps 359. But hey, the Fiesta actually starts the day before!

(The pics are (C) whomever but I don’t know who, I think I got them from Diario de Navarra)

Good morning, all (Except Roo!) (although I see **Nava **beat me to it!)

Roo, ask not what your friend can do to relax, ask what **you **can do to relax your friend! :wink: (with abject apologies to the ghost of JFK)
And you’re excluded from the “Good Morning” because you get your own, very special “Good Night, **Roo **:)”

Nava, I get that lots of things people do are stupid – but hey, at least sex with strangers is fun while it lasts.
Hey, I haven’t been here long, can I still qualify as a stranger? Or at least as a strange?

**Mika **-- more sympathy and v-hugs your way.

**Rosie **-- Yay for standing up and singing, bending your knees, and stuff!

**Mindy **-- we still have old fashioned Ice Cream Truck here. No vocals :smiley: Still evil though :eek:
Great writing; I literally giggles in a few places :slight_smile:

::looks around:: Have I covered everybody?

Hmm… **Rigs **-- Happy unbirthday to you. Only 364 of those left to go now (hey, I can count; 2008 is a leap year!)

**Haze **-- just hi! on general principal :slight_smile:

Me, I got nuttin’…

F*cking Booger, the cat, decided to dart outside while I let the dogs to to pee, and I can’t get back to sleep. :mad:

This is the type of shit I worry about every time I get on a fire truck.

Good Mornin’ Y’all!

mika SIL and family will be in my thoughts and prayers. I’m glad to hear the separation/breakup seems to have resolved itself.

BioRosie YAY!!!

Ok, Ima finish caffienatin’ so’s I can go purty up and see what awaits me in the wonderful world of beer brewin’ today! :smiley:

Later Y’all!

Morning all!

Meeks - will be thinking of you and your family, but at least it’s a bit of good news about the separation.

Rigs - sorry to hear you’re having marriage trials, I remember those very well. It’s only 10.15am here but the sun’s over the yardarm somewhere in the world if you feel the need to justify that drink you so desperately need.

We have icky drizzly rain today and it’s the first day of our graduation ceremonies. There are three ceremonies a day until the end of next week so campus is swarming with grads and their happy smiling families. Oh joys.

I have two duties in the hall next week so that will be fun. I’m so looking forward to it, can’t you tell?

First day of vacation and I’m up at my usual work time. ick. Partly due to a feline invasion of my pillow and partly due to an impatient bladder. Plus I got to thinking about the fiance and my growing misgivings… So anyway, I’m up. Critters have been tended to, and I’m caffeinating. The rest of the household is sleeping.

All of a sudden, I’m not looking forward to my vacation cruise. First vacation in more years than I can recall, and I’m not excited about it. Instead, I’m making lists of things to remember. And wondering if I can get everything done in time. And stuff.

<yawn>

Well, at least I’m not at work.

But I’m also too lazy to address everyone individual as you deserve, but I promise I have read the entire thread and I offer hugs, smooches, and handsful of flung confetti as appropriate. I’ll even share my stash of chocolate. But don’t get greedy! :mad:

:smiley:

TGIF!