evilbeth, it’s not just your proficiency at fellatio, but also the pride in workwomanship, the quality effort, the thoughtfulness, and your Forum-like visual description that just make you so damn sexy! What guy wouldn’t admire that? (Wow, this is turning me on. It’s a good thing I’m at work and sitting behind a desk ;))
This topic keeps coming up.
As a gay man, I find giving to be much more pleasurable than receiving. I enjoy giving a guy pleasure through the use of the tongue and throat muscles, but I find that most gay men (in my experience) give head as well as they kiss, i.e. not well at all. Although when I have been with a guy who knows his stuff, it’s unbelievably good.
I love giving head because I like knowing that I am giving pleasure. I also love the feeling of having something in my mouth. That’s the same reason that I enjoy sucking on fingers tongues, and inanimate objects.
Hey, I know I’m getting all light-headed here.
Welfy, go to your room. You are grounded for the next few years, young lady.
Well, the wife and I have a physically open marriage… with boundaries and everything, it works out quite well.
My wife, I should have said, is mostly unable to do it… sometimes, when her jaw isn’t bothering her, she can do it for very brief periods… but I don’t complain any more… the pleasure isnt’ worth watching her hurt herself for my gain.
Ah well.
As does the question of how long it will take handy to reach 10,000 posts.
With this kind of lengthy diatribe, I predict an extra month, at minimum 
Sorry to tag along, M.Cynical, but this one cracked me up, too. Congrats, handy! That was short, sly and perfect!
Not that anything discussed here will be of remotest applied use to you until you’re at least 25, Welfy, but good sex ain’t an exchange of goods.
Let me rephrase that…
When it works, the whole shebang kinda takes on a life of its own, a very personal gestalt. :::gets slightly bug-eyed::: See, it isn’t a matter of Act A with Ick-factor 4 to be exchanged for Act B of Ick-Factor 3.
Mother o’ pearl, someone else take over here. I’m a dud at birds 'n bees discussions.
Veb
Welfy, you can use a BJ in your favor: by telling him to return the favor–if you know what I mean.
posted by evilbeth
>>>>>It’s just like doing anything else–you get out of it what you put into it. If you are just sucking to get him off, he will get off and that will be that. However, if you are massaging with your tongue, caressing other parts of his nether regions with your fingers, paying attention to his moans and responding to them, then he (and you) will enjoy a thoroughly fulfilling experience. <<<<
::adjusts shirt collar:: Whoa…Did it get hot in here,or is it Beth?
Oh, but of course. :^)
…somehow I think I would rather that you had posted something along the lines of Convincing Him to Give You Head – is it Worth It?
Have fun, do things just because you feel like it, and be playful. But don’t forget to be selfish sometimes when it comes to how you play with the boy-people, OK?
Well! that was certainly… umm… interesting idly looks around for a certasin doper then pouts So evilbeth, any other useful little tips about the subject? Or anyone else willing to give advice?
Kitty
I’m an angel really
Personally, I’m finding this whole thread a little hard to swallow.
I enjoy givng people pleasure of all kinds. Why shouldn’t I enjoy watching someone and hearing them while I do something they enjoy me doing? Plus, if I’m with a guy who makes noise while I do it, it makes me that much hotter to make him come. Just hearing how you affect someone is arousing.
I agree with hypergirl. “I also love the feeling of having something in my mouth.”
Yay! I’m not the only one with an oral fixation, and here I thought I was a freak.
Kitty
Its funny, I was just considering starting a thread concerning this very topic… I still might, as my question itself is completely unrelated…
…But a girl can get ALOT more from it than just a mouthful of jizz.
I personally love the feeling of my boyfriends hands in my hair… I like knowing he feels good because of me. I love the sounds he makes and the cute curling of his toes that Im sure he doesnt think I notice… (He’s probably totally unaware that he’s doing it, but its cute) I rarely swallow but its not a personal thing, I get a really bad sore throat whenever I do, so I try to avoid it unless Ive got Pepsi or cigarettes on hand. However, sometimes the mood strikes and the situation is just so damned intense that you -want- to swallow it all and then some. It really is something to be taken on an individual basis. Peoples tastes differ from time to time. (har har)
I’d much rather give than receive, but Im slowly learning to appreciate being on both ends as Ive got a beau with the same problem. =) Its a very giving relationship (har har part II)
I think giving is alot easier because you know what to do. I feel incredibly out of place and unsure what to do with myself when Im on the receiving end.
Does anyone else have that issue?
Yay! I’m not the only one with an oral fixation, and here I thought I was a freak.
Its pretty common, Ive got it to. Its lead to the beheading of many pens, and the consumption of an ungodly amount of cigarettes. And probably the ingestion of too much food. cough
Lament for the Makers?