Book ID--this is really bugging me.

What the hell is the name of the book that came out in the last couple of years, about the way women are forced to sacrifice their jobs for their family while men aren’t?

I remember the cover–white, with red (?) lettering, but I can’t for the life of me think of the name. An Amazon search or three turned up nothing. I know I’ll know it when I hear it, too.

Gecher barefooted ass back in the kitchen! by Shau Vanis.

ok, ok, how about:
Weaving Work and Motherhood a 1999 book by Anita Ilta Garey. Pinkish cover with red lettering.

or

The Vision of Emma Blau by Ursula Hegi in 2000? White cover with blackish lettering.

Nein, nein. Two or three word title; author went to Harvard, I think. The things I remember, when I can’t remember the damn title.

Sex & Power by Susan Estrich

Nope. Damn and blast.