What’s the difference between a chronic and an acute masturbator then?
(and why is my spellcheck underlining masturbator??)
I would assume chronic refers to frequency, while acute is just the severity.
In other words, he’s yurking it so hard, he’s getting rug burn! 
I can’t tell from your OP whether you are talking about a trans man (FTM) or trans woman (MTF). If it’s the latter, it seems appropriate to be using female pronouns. Few trans people see any particular surgery as the dividing line for pronouns, though a handful do.
What does this even mean?
There’s more than one surgery related to transition (for both MTFs and FTMs) but I guess it’s safe to assume you mean genital reconstruction. The answer is: there is no answer. Everyone who transitions experiences different emotions related to the various stages of transitioning.
All of that aside, OP, it sounds like you are just a fuck buddy. It sucks that the feelings aren’t the same, but it sounds like your friend has been honest with you. You’re probably better off moving on.
where can we see these cam shows?
No mentions of any them disturbing neighbors 3am with annoying things such as bright lights and car horns.
No, its redundant.
Your dad’s not a … banker, is he?
Ha! I think this was alluded to already upthread but I’m not sure.
How so? If being gay means you’re attracted to your own sex, NOT the opposite sex, and being bi means you’re attracted to both sexes, then by your definition, you could bi and straight. Unless by “gay” you’re covering all the bases?