There is a thing called “edging” and it’s used for enhanced pleasure and it’s also used as a technique to stop premature ejactulation.
It basically involves bringing yourself to almost having an orgasm, then you quit. When the “urge” goes you start over again, and when you’re almost at the point of orgasm, you stop.
The idea is you learn to hold off, and or when you do finally orgasm it’s more powerful.
However with this technique it’s also possible to ejaculate without any orgasm.
Yes. Didn’t you have to watch those cheesy filmstrips in 7th grade? It’s called a wet dream.
Erection, ejaculation, and orgasm are all seperate functions, and can happen independantly.
The OP is a female, so she probably was watching a whole different video.
While obviously the theoretical ideal biological experience is orgasm simultaneous with ejaculation, you can have an ejaculation without an orgasm (I’ve experienced that) or an orgasm without ejaculation. I believe there was even a whole religious sect for which all the men were trained to achieve orgasm without ejaculation as a method of birth control (as well as obviously the various tantric techniques for prolonging sexual pleasure before ejaculation)…
I’ve never experienced a girl orgasm, but it seems girls don’t have ejaculations (except in kinky porn videos), so - how do you differentiate between the level/experience of pleasure of pre-orgasm sexual intercourse and that of during-orgasm? Is there always a hard deliniation? In guys, although various scenarios are possible, ejaculation is at the very least, a sort of symbolic crescendo, even if it doesn’t always correspond with a crescendo in all other ways…especially for the reason that ejaculation is an obstacle to libido recovery, whereas orgasm itself is NOT…
Certainly there is sexual pleasure during intercourse for guys, but an orgasm is sort of like jumping to the next level usually - 1…2…3…4…20!+E…2…1… Occasionally I’ve had a more gradual rise if I use a different technique - 1…2…3…4…5…6…7…8!..9!!..10!!!+E…11!!..12!..11…10…9…8… But I’ve also experienced frustrating ejaculations that occurred before a level I would consider orgasmic, which then shortcircuited me from being able to get to that level which is high enough to feel satiation. And also, rarely, there is some much greater level of orgasm, depending on stimulation and other factors - and also, there are various other components of the orgasm than level of pleasure and build-up model that may or may not be relevant other than as evidence that men have complex and variable orgasms too.
I’m not sure a dry ejaculation should really count as not ejaculating. The pumping motion is really the ejaculation. When referring to orgasm without ejaculation, people are usually referring to feeling the mental part without the physical. And vice versa.
I definitely don’t think that edging counts as ejaculating without orgasm. It’s just a much smaller O.
Humm - I’m not sure I’m totally clear what you’re asking here; however, if I get you I suspect it sort of depends on the girl. Personally, I’ve never ejaculated (which I’m not convinced is a bad thing), but generally for me it would probably go sort of like this…
1,2,3…6(small O),5,6,7…8(bigger O),9, 10, 11…769(Oh My Lord Thunderin’ Jesus O)
Lather, Rinse, Repeat although after 769 I don’t drop back to 1 - I mean, eventually, but it possible to have quite a few orgasms in rather rapid succession with a big one topping everything off, but not quite 'cus you can start again pretty well right away with small ones again.
Does that answer your question?
Well, I assume while you were learning about wet dreams I was learning about tampons, 'cus that’s what sex ed for girls consisted of when I was in junior high.
Hey, some of us girls ejaculate and AREN’T in kinky porn videos! We are known as squirters and it is real… (although an entirely different type of orgasm and best left for a different discussion).
Yeah, I know. We also watched “that” film. With much uncomfortable giggling.
“It’s an entirely different type of orgasm… altogether”