I say yes. The quality of advice might be equal but different. I believe if a person with limited relationship experience observe enough relationships, one can give quality advice. But, it won’t be from the same perspective as a person who has been in numerous relationships. A person who observes many relationships will probably view relationships more objectively, since they aren’t usually emotionally invested. On the other hand, a person with a lot of experience will see the fine details, that the inexperienced person can miss. This is because they have “been there and done that”.
Anyone who wants can give relationship advice. Those with a lot of experience would seem to me at least, to not necessarily be the more qualified expert as it would seem they have just failed many times. Those with few experiences may have hit the nail on the head sooner and therefore be better at relationships. Regardless, IMO, most relationship advice is not at all helpful and the vast majority of the time the advice seeker doesn’t want to listen or want real advice, they just want you to listen and agree.
I’d trust the opinions of someone with limited but generally successful long-relationships and their advice before listening to someone with lots of short-lived, spectacular failures.
I would say it’s exactly as you say. I have limited experience, but have received good reviews in the advice department by the heavily expericened. Often the experienced are shocked, and surprised by my advice, considering my practically nil experience Observation without emotional involvement can teach you a great many things. Unfortunately, I don’t practice what I preach. But that’s because I’m a big pussy.
Depends on the advice. There are many aspects to a relationship. One person might be good at forming new relationships (that don’t last) while another’s strength might be in maintaining them. Like any advice, you take in as much as you can and figure out what works for you.