I haven’t been in a good place since the school shootings. I know I’m not alone there. I thought I was doing better, but then a good friend who has a teen-aged son said she would never have had him if she’d known how crappy the world was going to be. She’s said this before, and has even advised him never to have kids. Anyway, she’s the third person to say something like this recently, and I’d had it. I told her that yes, the world is in a terrible crisis right now, but dammit, people with kids can’t afford the luxury of that kind of fatalism, that the nitty-gritty reality is we’re the ones who do force change because we have to. We both ended up crying and talking about how overwhelmed we are by what’s going on in our own lives, and I realized I’m emotionally exhausted. Boy, that’s a huge club, right?
Anyway, that’s why I wasn’t around for a couple days.
Wheelz, I hope the madding crowds leave their stupid at home.
FCM, I never thought about the fact stupid and stupid-drunk people on the highways would also be stupid on the water. Are there more boating accidents on holiday weekends?
Sari, I feels ya, girlfriend. I’m especially sorry about the macular degeneration gene. My brother has it, and he’s on some kind of med that slows it down. I hope yours never starts, and I’m sorry about your mom.
Taters, THANK YOU! I learned a lot from your last post, and it was heartening. I’m so glad you have a renewed passion for your very important work.
swampy, thanks for reminding me to ask my doc when my last tetanus shot was. I’ve been poked so many times the past 13 mos. or so (4 COVID, two flu, two shingles , two pneumonia) that I can’t recall what I had before then.
Speaking of barbed wire, as Boo did, here’s a fun fact: If you get cut by barbed wire, docs almost never stitch you up because there’s a 100% chance of infection. This from the ER doc who treated my young daughter for dozens of barbed wire cuts after a horrendous wreck that totaled her bike.
BooFae, you and your weather app crack me up.
WetOne, looking forward to happy reports from abroad!