Okay Gaudere, you said “Quite frankly, eternal torture for a finite amount of sin is not just.”
Interesting. This is a new objection I’ve not heard yet.
Here’s the deal. God, for whatever reason, has given us this period of time that we are alive on earth to make a choice. We can either choose God or choose ourselves. It is not per se about individual sins, whether committed multiple times or not. It’s about the overall choice to turn our backs on God, or to turn TO God. Basically you are making an infinate, forever-lasting choice whether you like it or not. As someone said earlier, rejecting God is the famous “unpardonable sin”. If, at the end of my life, my decision has been to reject God, I deserve eternal separation from Him. How dare I reject God? It is, appropriately, unpardonable and deserving of the worst punishment imagineable.
If however I live a life of sin my whole life, and at the end I finally humble myself and make the choice to turn to God … it is approriate that I have an eternal reward. It is the ultimate act of humility for us to admit that we belong to God and not to ourselves, and it’s a just reward to reward someone eternally for that choice.
I’m SURE there’s something in that that you will want to question, so fire away, I’m ready! 
Here’s another quote: “You still haven’t shown why the innocent must suffer to spare the guilty! Just saying “that’s the way it is” doesn’t explain how it’s supposed to make any sense!”
Well, I would argue that I have covered this up to a point, but I concede, as I have before, that you have a good question that I don’t know how to explain clearly at the moment. As I said, I’m going to poll some friends to see how they would explain it. My challenge to you in the meantime is – can you come up with an alternative that YOU think makes sense, within the parameters I gave?
Another quote: “what determines what is good and evil, if not God?”
The only way I know how to answer is this - God’s inherent goodness and logic determines good and evil. It’s not like he pulled out a blackboard and said, “Hm okay … murder in the ‘bad’ category, love in the ‘good’ category, cookies and cream ice cream in the ‘neutral’ category …”. But neither is good and evil a nebulous force that God submits to.
To take the obvious example, is it not clear to you and I that murder is ‘bad’? God, being perfectly logical (I KNOW you don’t believe this yet, but humor me), just inherently “knows” that it is wrong to murder, to rape, to hate someone, to lust, to cuss someone out, etc etc. He also inherently “knows” that it is good to smile, be cheerful, be kind, give someone M&M’s, etc. (Okay I threw that last one in :)).
I realize that answer won’t totally satisfy you, but I hope it gives you food for thought. It’s an interesting question! I may poll my friends for more thoughts on this one too.
Another quote: “I thought the goal of God was unforced love. “Love me or burn” is not unforced.”
LOL! Never heard it described as “love me or burn”!
No, it is indeed unforced. God does not force you to love Him, He leaves it up to you. You’d be surpised at how MANY people have heard the full gospel, understood it, and rejected it. They KNOW they’re going to hell and they make the choice to reject God. Of course, a lot of these people delude themselves that hell is going to be like one big MTV beach party or something, but still, they make the choice.
Quote number next: first, you quoted me as saying “God loves us and doesnt want to punish us, but He’s just and so He has to punish us”. You responded, “But this isn’t really one of your initial premises; if it was axiomatic that God must punish us, He would have to punish us always”.
I don’t get this one … please explain further. Why do you think that God would “have to” punish us “always”? Do you mean on a moment by moment, sin by sin basis?
Second … actually, this was my very FIRST premise. Look back on my first post on this topic. This is one of the lines that started this back’n’forth debate!
You quoted me as saying: “One thread he kept seeing over and over was that EVERY religion had something at least nice to say about Jesus.” You responded "The people of the Book all say nice things about Moses, too, but that doesn’t make Moses God, or make the Jews necessarily correct. "
I’ll admit here that I was just telling a story. This isn’t “gospel” and isn’t the way everyone comes to God. There IS one distinction with Moses and everyone else, like Abraham, that other religions might admire. None of the others CLAIMED to be God. Jesus did.
Finally, to some of your final comments: ““I don’t know and I have no desire to know” is terribly disappointing though.”
Well, there are MANY things I desire to know about God and faith in Christ and living the Christian life. The questions you are asking are things YOU desire to know, and I am doing my best to try to help find answers for you. As I said earlier, I will go away perfectly content to not know the answers if necessary … although I’ll admit I hope that’s not how it ends. If you are genuinely seeking then I want you to get the answers you need…again, as long as you don’t expect God to answer everything instantly.
“I don’t know and I have no desire to know” is not ALWAYS a bad thing. You can’t know about everything. I don’t know anything about electrical engineering, and I have no desire to know. Is that so bad? (Please don’t say it is!! :))
Another quote: “you seem to think that saying something makes it so, which isn’t how it works unless you’re simply positing axioms.”
No, saying something doesn’t make it so, and I’ve never believed that nor have I stated that. I could say, “God is a chicken, and by golly you folks better believe it” and it won’t make it true no matter how sincere I am. The standard of truth that we all must submit to is God’s Word, the Bible. Yes, I know you and most of those on this board don’t see that, but just realize that’s where I’m coming from, which I believe I’ve stated several times already. I believe something is true because it’s scripturally based.
Another quote: "And I suggest that you think about how your statements will be read by others; how would you react to someone telling you that you were not a Christian? Do you think this is the best way to reach people? "
You are “right on” here, Gaudere (Finally, something we can agree on!). Again, as I told Esprix, it was totally and completely a misunderstanding on my part. I read a statement he made, and misunderstood it to mean that he agreed with the statement I later made. That’s what I get for not reading carefully. No, it’s not a good way to reach people. I’ve never gone up to someone and sharply said, “Hey, you’re not a Christian” and never would.
Final quote: “Do you think that you have the right to say that someone who believes in Jesus the Christ is not a Christian?”
In light of the controversy that started this issue I don’t think I’ll comment right now in depth. All I’ll do is leave this semi-cryptic comment … there are many places in the Bible where Jesus Himself says that there will be many people on Judgment Day that claim to be Christians that will not be on the side of the fence they think they should be on.