At 53 I’m not so young. And needing help has nothing to do with it. Not trying something new over the years is booooring!
Well, speaking as an overweight woman who does this one on the regular, I am going to disagree. A guy can use his thumb just as well, too. What exactly are you doing to a clitoris that the above configuration involves any major wrist contortions?
This I’m willing to accept, but that’s much different than suggesting the above requires double jointed wrists :p.
Hitachi Wand? Good Lord! Why use a battleship, when a kayak will do the job?
The most basic vibrating egg with a remote will let things get going just fine.
Not too big to get in the way, no 230V outlet needed ;), and it’s not 4 pounds!
Plus, Mrs. can easily position and move it according to her needs, rather than being attacked by a 4 pound machine. Not that there’s anything wrong with that.
I’m down with that!
Most girls aren’t that flexible, unfortunately.
Because variety is the spice of life. Why not have both?
Besides, the wand vs the egg is like the difference between shooting a bullet and throwing it! The wands lowest speed is about 1.5 the eggs fastest.
I last posted about this in 2007 (search for it), but I suggest a product no longer made, the Vibrafriend. Not clitoral, but inspiring under certain circumstances.
I keep noticing this thread title, hearing a news report in my head :
"Officials today announced the arrests of the leaders of the notorious clitoral stimulation ring that has been terrorizing the city. Police were said to have had a very difficult time developing leads, as victims provided little information and only wanted to nap or cuddle, and many had what were described as ‘huge, shit-eating grins’ and/or a quote “glow”. Local men declined comment, although some wondered aloud what a clitoris might be."
I know, it’s just like this past Saturday when I went to the Liquor Hole to buy a fifth of Old Misery, and the clerk was all “nice try sonny, but we don’t sell alcohol to five-year-olds.” I said “golly jeepers, mister!” and took off on my Big Wheel, but I totally got him back that night when I shot marbles through his window with my slingshot.
Assuming we’re talking about the male partner trying to stimulate the female’s clitoris during penetration in the missionary position (or similar), there is no comfortable way to rotate the hand to anywhere near a comfortable and useful position (which would be palm away from own body).
I’m going to have to side with Diosa here (which is not with nearly as much reluctance as that might have sounded like). If you can lay your hand flat on her stomach, you can use your thumb to stimulate her clit.
Try it; you’ll like it! (And, more importantly, so will she.)
Alright, lady is on her back, right? Man is up on his knees, sitting up. Her legs are wrapped around his waist. He is upright, NOT laying on top of her. They are, effectively, making what’s more or less a right angle (except her hips are elevated up a bit).
Put your hands out in front of you like you’re admiring your beautiful manicure. See how your thumb is naturally angled in by it’s position on your hand? While thrusting, one could conceivably use that thumb to manipulate the clitoris. No straining, no weird angles, no uncomfortable arm contortions-- just a natural angle of your hand. Now, if you want to use other fingers, that would take a little work, but the thumb is right there and good to go.
Am I just explaining this poorly or something? This is like, the world’s easiest sex position if you’re trying to stimulate her clitoris while penetrating.
OK, I can see how it would work like that for many people (not me, as I have one fewer movable joints in my thumbs than most people), but I can also see how that position might not work for people carrying more weight, or with overall reduced flexibility due to age.
I suppose it was insensitive of me not to account for people missing thumb joints, but yes. Other than that, this position is actually one that’s suggested for overweight people, as it keeps bellies more out of the way than ones where folks are laying on top of one another. That said, skinny for fat, it’s a crowd pleaser regardless.
Of course, weak knees and such would definitely cause a problem. Pillows or various bolsters can help with that to some degree, especially if you’re willing to invest.
I remember that position from my younger days quite fondly. But now that my partner is a senior citizen with bad knees and tum like Tweedledee, it just ain’t gonna happen. 'Sokay…we’ve got other options. 
Heh. 
I choked on some Pinot Grigio right there.
I’m just not following you.
Is there a picture, or a video of some kind that would show this from several angles?
What?
No. Not at all.
It’s a variation of the missionary position or the butterfly position. It’s also an excellent position for stimulating the Grafenberg spot.
If all else fails the woman can reach down and give her self a helping hand. Watching ones woman stroke her snooch while you’re inside of her is hot!
Yes, I’m certain its a hilarious topic.
I’m sure you must be right, or we wouldn’t be having this conversation.
Part of my initial confusion was that I did not realise you were describing a fully upright body position for the male. That seems mechanically confounding to me for other reasons, but as this might also be due to other matters of personal physiology, I’m not going to elaborate further.