Check out the video of a Gay Soldier Coming Out to His Dad. His Dads complete acceptance and the visible weight lifted from the son is just too heartwarming.
A GREAT Day for America. It took too long, but now that its here it is time to celebrate.
I am very glad to hear this. I hope that all those brave men and women who were discharged under the policy will be able to re-enlist without any troubles, if they want to do so.
I can easily imagine it falling when a couple of officers married in Massachusetts sue their branch of the military for discrimination. Then again, sometimes a Constitutional prohibition on gay marriage seems more likely.
The military has come a long way since I enlisted in '73. While I was in training in Memphis, one of the women in the company accused another of being gay. I suspect the basis was nothing more than the way she dressed - she wasn’t exactly a girly-girl. Anyway, the accusation led to a legal investigation which cost the accused girl a great set of orders, since she was on legal hold. Meanwhile, the accuser went on her merry way…
The girl who was accused was cleared and she and I ended up assigned to the same squadron. But the interim was such a huge waste of time, resources, and probably a bit of her sanity. All because of a baseless accusation that had absolutely nothing to do with her ability to be a technician.
I’m definitely glad to see this stupid policy go by the wayside. Sadly, I expect there will be some unpleasantness in the short term, but in the long run, this can only be a good thing.
Just for the record: After I completed Basic and AIT in the US Army, I met my first roommate in the barracks. I knew he was gay just from his room appearance (don’t ask me how; I just knew). He turned out to be the most competent LPN at the hospital we worked at, and a great guy as well. I didn’t mind that he was gay. (Well, except that one time I walked in on him and his boyfriend, but that’s a whole other story.)
The second time I met a soldier who wasn’t quite as discretionary as to his sexual status was at Ft. Lewis, WA. We deployed together. He had his s**t wired tight and was a great NCO. I did hear some harsh words regarding his lifestyle during off hours. I told the soldiers I didn’t like that kind of talk, but at least they stopped doing in my presence. I can’t say a bad word about him to this day. He was a good leader.
Although I’m a straight man, I’m glad to see this ban lifted. I don’t think sexual orientation has any effect on your professional ability, what profession that may be. Even in the armed forces.
I’m happy about this, as I have a few friends enlisted who are gay and have always had that niggling worry that someone was going to use that as leverage against them for whatever reason.
It’s more a sigh of relief and let’s get on with it than a celebratory thing, though.