For the prostitute to be doing it for crack money she would have to actually exist.
He’s paying her. She can get off on her own time.
Aint nobody got time for that.
Preach it brother. Just more proof that our country is going to hell. Having orgasms at work. If I did that I’d be jailed and labeled a sex offender for the rest of my life.
:p:D
Here’s the thing: in general, no, if you’re paying a sex worker for sex, the status of the worker’s orgasm is totally irrelevant. However, our OP here is claiming to be madly and wildly in love with this woman and even though he still pays her for sex, their relationship is just SO MUCH deeper than that, ya know? So, it’s weird that he continues to not take her pleasure into account. Well, apparently he does, but I mean, she’s not really interested in orgasms anyway, so nbd.
Why?
I do agree that if he does love her why wouldn’t he want to pleasure her. I always do. So I’ve go that, and feet, going for me.
I would think that if a prostitute really loved you, she would at least give you like a punch card so that your 10th blowjob is free or something like that.
But then how’s she going to buy her crack, huh? Smart guy? :rolleyes:
Bareback surcharge.
OP, come on, deep down you know the reality of this situation perfectly well. You are involved in a business transaction; one that involves sex. You don’t have any ‘connection’ to this girl, she’s just getting you off. You have no interest in her pleasure or well-being, you’re only concern is your own self-interest. This is in no way any sort of meaningful personal relationship.
You also know that she would never be with you, regardless of whether or not she left her “boyfriend” (I put that term in quotes because with junkies, there are no boyfriends or girlfriends, only junkies). She has NO feelings for you. NONE. You are an ATM for her; one that she must fuck to get money out of. Her existence is getting high. Period. How could you have feelings for someone who isn’t capable of having feelings themselves?
And of course the “bf” ‘appreciates’ what you do for them (him). You get him high. That’s the extent of his concern for your existence. You must understand that you are scraping the very bottom of the societal barrel here, right? Feelings and emotions, at least in the sense that most normal people are familiar with, simply don’t exist in the world you are so foolishly bumbling around in. There is only deceit, urgency, desperation, agony, humiliation and oblivion.
You need to be honest with yourself. You already know better. Stop trying to fool yourself. There is no bond between you and this prostitute. Well, none other than that of your sexual inadequacies and her drug addictions.
This whole thread reads like Ayn Rand writing an advice to the lovelorn column.
Not that I disagree with you, but your making this girl out to be a demon or robot or something. Don’t get me wrong, I highly doubt this situation will end well, but she is still human. Do you really think she is incapable of having any feelings for this guy?
Not of the sort that you or I or anyone without such active addictions would consider “feelings”, no.
She’s not a robot, she’s a streetwalker-prostitute. The line is fine.
I mean, even if I had feelings for a guy, if he never even tried to get me off, those feelings would diminish pretty quickly. What can I say? I’m a choosey woman!
I followed the link last night, just out of morbid curiosity. I found myself both fascinated (in a bug under a magnifying glass sort of way) and repulsed. A subculture of men who support and encourage other men in their quest to pay women for sex. Reasons vary from the socially awkward who don’t know how to have relationships to the outright sociopaths who pay to humiliate and degrade without the likelihood of facing criminal charges. All objectify the women to an extreme extent. Some advise each other on what to watch for in their drug addicts of choice. Apparently the heroin addicts are the best lay. One wrote a chillingly eloquent missive about the best sex he ever had with a prostitute who had a seizure while they were having sex; he was wistful about the best experiences in life not being easily duplicated. Some convince themselves that they are in love and are going to rescue their fair damsels. Many rate experiences with particularly well known prostitutes in their respective regions. They post pictures that they’ve taken of working ladies on patrol, and advise each other on avoiding “Leo’s” (assume this means pimps) and undercover officers. What a sad, bleak existence for all involved.
OP my question for you: are you ever even a little bit happy?
Anyone else starting to read **joecool’**s post in the Dana Carvey SNL George Bush voice?
“Not gonna lie…”
When the hell does “barebacking” come up while talking to your friend’s kids and daughter’s friends?
!
At a family BBQ? “The condom-ents, are on the picnic table” “That’s OK, I like my dogs bareback!”
In the van on the way to soccer? “Are you guys wearing your home or away jerseys to practice?” “No, actually we’re going bareback tonight!”
This thread is like a porn parody of the Princess Bride:
Sluttercup: "Crackgirl, fetch me that bucket. Then climb into the backseat of my car so I can ride you bareback.
Crackgirl: As you wish.
LEOs are the Law Enforcement Officers not the pimps.
Oh, they aren’t actually aware I’m listening. And it’s always gossip about other people they know. And my daughter’s 31, so it’s not like we’re talking about teenagers.