Continuing the discussion from Help/resources for a person newly blind at age 91:
Mary Lou will be turning 92 on Dec 10. Her vision has improved ever-so-slightly to where she can sort of see large areas of something. In the beginning, everything was completely black, so this is good, as she is no longer likely to walk straight into a wall. However, she is still functionally blind. We hope she may eventually improve enough to be called “low-vision.”
When this first happened, they hired around-the-clock caregivers. Now they’d like to cut way back on their hours or dispense with them all together, for economy reasons as well as just because they aren’t needed for so many hours. Mary Lou is able to navigate in the house on her walker.
Here are the two things I want to ask about:
*A medical alert/fall alert system. I know there are lots of them out there. Currently her husband is sleeping in another room because she has to sleep with the light on, as waking in the dark is scary and disorienting for her. So they still have the caregivers around the clock. With a fall alert system, hubby could be summoned from down the hall at the same time that a dispatcher is notified. Hubby would not be able to lift her by himself. [I have made suggestions for how he can move back into the bedroom, which they may or may not heed, but this post is going to be long enough as it is…]
What alert systems do y’all have experience with? Cost is not a major item, as whatever the cost, it will be less than paying a person to sit up overnight. What are tips and tricks when shopping for an alert system?
*Meal preparation. This is a tough one. Mary Lou was/is a great cook. She also has multiple food allergies, however. The current caregivers really aren’t capable of following her cooking instructions. Mary Lou can’t manage at all in the kitchen now, and hubby is not someone who can pick up the slack.
Meals on Wheels is an option. My mother used them when she was still in her apartment in California. But she got tired of the food and started shoving the packages in the freezer until the MOW delivery person reported that and they stopped delivering. I need to call the local MOW office and find out what the meals consist of. Mary Lou, as I said, had allergies. Her husband is a health nut (and going strong at 91!) so the Standard American Diet will not be acceptable to them. Do home health agencies do any cooking? I’ll research that.
How have y’all dealt with the food issue for homebound elderly family members?
More later.
P.S. I’m in the thick of this situation for as long as it lasts. I’m the one here in town, so that makes sense. It’s okay.
Ultimately, (months from now, probably) Mary Lou and hubby will have to move to a facility, and we know of an excellent one, but in the meantime, these things need to be dealt with.