He certainly wasn’t a household name in a Tom Cruise way, but he was a well-known film and television actor (his resume) and his monologues are also available on tape and have been shown on TV. Mostly, he’s been all over the headlines since he disappeared, and has been discussed endlessly (as Otto complained) right here on the SD.
I do, but I dismissed at as a Peckadillo.
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Now back to the OP: Howcum there aren’t 27 threads on the deaths of Paul Winfield and Frances Dee?!
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I didn’t see any for Frances Dee except for your mention in your Paul Winfield thread. I was ignorant of her so trotted over to IMDB to discover that I have seen several of her films but I don’t know that I would recognize her. Winfield has an obit at advocate.com which talks about his devastation at the death a few years back of his “longtime companion.” I had no idea he was gay.
And speaking of gay, I do agree somewhat with the notion that there are too many SSM threads (which doesn’t on its own stop me from participating in them but that’s another story) but as one who’s started several I tend to open a new thread only if there’s some major development like a new jurisdiction issuing licenses or the like. Otherwise I try to find one that’s already open and add my comments there.
I think he invented a type of basketball
Can I open a pit thread on how “there’s too many _____ threads” pits, or has that been done to death?
I mean specifically “how famous was he nationwide before his disappearance.” Yes, I have seen the news coverage and the SDMB threads – so I was familiar with Gray’s disappearance as a story into itself, but not familiar with him as a performer, playwright.
For the nonce, let’s disqualify all media attention devoted to Spalding Gray this calendar year. Before 2004, how did he make himself a household name – or even a somewhat recognizable name – outside of the New York-area?
I checked him out on imdb.com, and saw that Gray had many character-actor entries, usually playing doctors or professors. Still, I’d quibble with you calling him “well-known” – at least nation-wide. I know a few folks who watch a lot of movies, and consider themselves character-actor aficionados. They probably know of him. But for the non-hobbyist … I don’t know.
I also found mention of his monologues. That kind of thing is pretty well unknown around here (Jackson, MS). As an experiment, I’m going to see if any of my local video rental places have a copy of Gray’s Anatomy. I’m expecting not, but I might be surprised.
Not that any of this diminishes Gray’s death in any way. My point is that it is incorrect to label someone as “ignorant” if they’ve never heard of Spalding Gray. One may be ignorant of Spalding Gray, but that does not make one an all-around ignorant person, lacking in basic cultural knowledge.
Yeah well that’s a pretty fucking stupid way to look at things if you ask me.
Of course you are technically correct, so feel free to go throw yourself a tea party or something.
Someone at AP must have known him. That’s the only reason I can come up with. I’m sure that someone better well-known died on the same day that his body was found but no one at AP knew THAT person.
National and international news is all the same. Everything seems to start at AP.
That’s cause journalists are lazy and stupid and just copy the AP without checking facts. If you want to see incompetant journalists at work, you should have caught last night’s Daily Show showing the Martha Stewart fiasco and all the red hankerchief waving.
I started one yesterday, but it dropped out of sight quicker than the US version of Coupling.
I first learned of Gray in 1994, when some cute girls in my college class rented Swimming to Cambodia and invited me over to watch it with them. I dreaded the movie, frankly. A monologue about an actor’s experiences in Southeast Asia? Oh, how wholesome. How enriching.
I was, of course, captivated by it. Spalding Gray was probably the most brilliant storyteller I’ve ever had the pleasure of listening to: he told stories exactly how I like them, without funny voices or exaggerated rhythms or other ostentatious techniques, but rather as if he were livng entirely in the moment, as if he were figuring out moment by moment exactly which word, which turn of phrase, would capture his thoughts.
I got Gray’s Anatomy for my physician father for his birthday, and burundi took me to see his live performance of Morning, Noon, and Night in 2001 (or maybe 2002).
Rest in peace, Spalding.
But Eve, who the fuck is Frances Dee?
Daniel
Better get your gaydar fixed. I read his beads the first time I saw Wrath of Khan.
As for cultural ignorance and the death of Spalding Gray, there is no need for World Eater to be so petulant about the lacunae in his cultural knowledge. So he didn’t know who Spalding Gray was, so what? Now he does.
And yes, not knowing something makes you ignorant of it. It doesn’t make you “bad” or intellectually inferior–it just means that you had one less datum before than you do now.
We’re all ignorant, just on different subjects. I’m a kickass Trivial Pursuit player–in art, entertainment, history, science, literature, I’m the maestro di color che sanno, but I have one Achilles heel—sports trivia. I’m the most ign’ant lummox in the world when it comes to knowing who played in the 1968 Super Bowl, who won the MVP in the World Series in 1982, and so on and so forth. That doesn’t make me a complete ignoramus, just a sports trivia ignoramus. That’s an area in which I am completely backward compared to just about any other American male. Do I let it worry me? No, I just smile knowingly when co-workers talk sports and learn by listening.
Look and see, she’s Frances Dee
Right here on IMDB
She went to bed with her costar, but wed!
That gorgeous Frances Dee!
Started films in Twenty-nine,
In “Little Women” she was fine.
Costarred with Coop,
You should know her, you goop—
She’s poor, dead Frances Dee!
Hee hee – thanks! And here I was hoping she was related to an alchemist. Hmm . . . the potential for a new musical suggests itself. Grease (of basilisk egg), maybe?
Daniel
1968 season: Super Bowl III: Jets over heavily-favored Colts. You may remember this game from such Trivial Pursuit questions as "Who said, of Super Bowl III in 1969: ‘We’ll win - I guarantee it.’ " (Joe Namath)
World Series, 1982: The last World Series won by my beloved St. Louis Cardinals. MVP: catcher Darrell Porter.
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Oddly, before Spalding Gray’s disappearance and now apparent death, I knew more about Rick Dees than Gray himself, having had a brief but passionate affair with “Disco Duck”.
-Lil
I spent much of my early adult life in Salt Lake City Utah, a cultural wasteland to be sure and I knew of Spalding. I now live in Seattle many peopl ehere know of him.
You have IFC or sundance channel on your Sat dish or cable? they often show Grey’s anatomy, swimming to cambodia or Monster in a box. I have also seen monster in a box on HBO and showtime.
He also has several books out.
For reference, i am not typically a theatre goer or one who follows the theatre/play scene.
So yes, he is known outside of New York and art circles.
1.) Requesting information from those who might know, and who belong to a board devoted to fighting ignorance, as opposed to googling is bragging or being a “yahoo” how?
2.) Not knowing of the ezistance and/or works of ONE solitary playwright is possessing, (in your words), “complete lack of cultural and literary knowledge” because? There ARE other works, playwrights, cultural events…etc.
BrUTher.
I don’t think that’s the issue here, though. If Gray’s death had been cut-and-dried, happening at home or in hospital, then I could fully understand people saying, “Who?” on hearing of his death*. But his disappearance has been in the news for two months, and spawned several threads on this board. I call it wilful ignorance for someone to have been unaware of his disappearance, even if awareness didn’t inspire them to read/watch further to find out why it was newsworthy. If someone didn’t know he was missing, they can’t have been watching/reading the news very closely.
God knows there are enough OPs in the Pit declaring "I’m sick of hearing about [current news story]! Which always draw the response “Then change the channel”. Could it be that people really have started changing the channel, and that’s why the two-month vigil for Gray went under their radar?
*I also don’t remember anyone saying “Who?” in any of the Spalding-Gray-is-missing threads. I could have understood that, and wouldn’t have called anyone ignorant for asking the question then.
I think half the battle in the ol’ fight is realizing those times when you can get a quick, fairly complete answer from google as opposed to asking “Who the fuck is Spalding Gray”? (and since the person who said that apologized for the tone, I apologize for dredging this up yet again). How might one realize that? There have been several celebrity death type threads about him (and even if one hasn’t read the threads, they were commented upon in the OP of this very thread, so that alone should be hard to miss), and one might imagine that as a celebrity there will be information about him on google, as opposed to, say, my Aunt Myrtle. In addition, the fact that he has recently died (also as mentioned in this very thread) might lead one to believe that such information that one would find on google would be fairly current because it is, well, newsworthy.
I can only assume that people who post to the SDMB have, by default, an internet connection and access to google.
And not to let down the side or anything, but frankly I’m a little amazed that Spalding Gray is as famous as he is. It always struck me as one of those situations where Spalding Gray was mostly famous for being Spalding Gray, which is cool and everything, but still leaves me a bit perplexed. I absolutely agree that he’s famous in a rather narrow field, but still, he’s famous enough that it seems a little silly to claim that he’s not really famous, as if all the media coverage has been some sort of sham.
There are those of us who have no interest in the life of celebrities. I don’t watch E!, or read People. Call that willful ignorance if you wish.