Couldn't find a card for, "To Mom and Dad, on Your Wedding Day"

I only looked at Target, but there wasn’t a single one to be found. I found one that said, “To Mom and Dad, on My Wedding Day.” But it’s not mine, it’s theirs! I considered crossing out the “my” and doing editor’s corrections in red ink, but I think it’s funnier in my head. Had to go with a plain “congratulations” card and write in what it was for.

Yep. My parents got hitched today. OK, he’s technically my step-dad, but they’ve been together since 1978, so he’s my dad as far as I’m concerned. They decided last week to make it official at the courthouse, so applied for the license and went back today to sign the papers or whatever you do at the courthouse. It’s so anti-climactic I didn’t go, didn’t need to be there, it would have been even weirder anyway.

Dad’s in poor health. I think they decided to make it official just because all the financial stuff will go easier, the documenting on their trusts and wills was getting out of hand. They want to make sure everything transfers properly to one or the other without probate or an executor having to step in, and then that everything transfers to me (not my stepsister - eesh, now she really is my stepsister!) when they’re both gone. So kinda a sad reason, really, but they’re happy. He’s been proposing every few years since they’ve been together, and she finally said yes!

Still, it’s weird.

Congrats to them! But, as far as the card, well… most people in a situation to have one of their biological parents remarry generally doesn’t consider the spouse-to-be a parent until *after *the ceremony. Seems logical to me that there wouldn’t be a card for that.

My mom remarried when I was 16. Fun day! Since I doubt my sister or I’ll ever get married ourselves, I’m at least glad to have been a fundamental participant in one.

This reminds me of the punch-line to a joke about a golf hustler and a priest. :smiley:

Think about writing a couple of letters - one for mom, one for step dad. It’s a lost art, and a well-written letter might have a big impact now.

Try a craft store with a papercraft section. You can make your own card (with premade elements, if you like) to say whatever you want it to say.

Silly me. I’ll write a letter in a handmade card. Why didn’t I think of that?
Thanks guys! I totally forgot about seeded paper. I’ll use that!

If you had a scrapbook hoard, I mean STASH like some of us, this wouldn’t even have been a question.
You can make a neat, 4 flap envelope w/ a 12 x12 paper to fit a folded 8.5 x 11 card. When you’re done it looks like a little gift, which cards ought to be in the first place!

Seconded on the letter. Your heartfelt love on paper will be better than any other possible gift, and it’s never too late to send it.