Well if my husband thought I was cheating just because I was sitting talking to another man he would get shown the door! My hubby that is:D
Now if I slipped in a 2 am thats another story! He’d be pissed I didn’t bring the guy home with me:eyesrolled:
When I broke up with my last partner, we had plans that we’d stay friends and still hang out together sometimes.
Her new partner doesn’t like the idea of her hanging out with her ex. He has ‘issues’ about it. Therefore, needless to say, she and I no longer hang out together.
There are many people who have this suspicious or jealous streak - and it’s usually because they are imagining what they would be doing if they were the one going out… or it’s because they’ve been burned before.
Same here. Asking about whether the husband might think you are cheating (even jokingly) is a great way to test the waters and get the woman thinking about it.
If Lola suddenly decided to take up an interest in sports I would be delerious with joy.
If she was involved in an activity and wanted to hang out for a while afterwards to chat with friends that would be fine. I trust her.
Tomorrow I am actually going bowling with some of the people I work with, we’ll probably hang out for a little while afterwards as it’s a company event and I’ll see people there I haven’t seen in some time. I won’t be staying out too late because I have responsibilities at home and if we’re lucky the kids will sack out early and Lola and I will get to curl up and have some alone time.
My husband may tend to be a little more bothered by the situation than I would be. I’m not jealous at all, he knows how I feel about infidelity and that he’d be out in a heartbeat if it happens. I have no reason to not trust him. He would be more likely to feel uncomfortable with me talking with men when he’s not around than I would be with him talking to women. He’s more into the ‘together’ thing than I am.
Jealous not really, but my wife, who I’m seperated from, did something just like this. We used to play pool on a league. I stopped and she stayed, then she started coming home at 1am twice a week every week. I knew that sometimes you had to stay until late, but come on 1am every time?
I personally don’t have a problem with my SO doing stuff, but all the time got real old real quick.