Munch,
Thai people are all about the money. They love money and that is not a bad thing if you also love making money and giving it all to your spouse and her family to have her. She may be a hard worker herself as most Thai people are but it will be nothing but money, money, money that she will care about. My Mom worked with a lot of them and they send all their money back home to their families.
I saw a documentary of some poor guy that went to Thailand and was killed. They finally found out it was his Thai wife that set it up so she could cash in on his life insurance. She had her first husband killed also. Thailand is in a uproar and the police don’t investigate homicides like in the US. I wouldn’t be caught “dead” in Thailand right now.
She won’t marry beneath her so unless you are a doctor or independently wealthy I would not waste my time. They don’t marry for love but for money and social status. Culturally they are very different from us. So if she was a poor Thai you might be a catch but where she is a rich Thai you would have to be richer then her and her family.
Ask yourself, Do I really want to be a part of this culture? Do I really want to be a wallet for a foreign woman?