My mom gets on my nerves so much.
There are three problems
#1 living in the same house
#2 she doesnt hear well
#3 I was mental than she went nuts
#1 is the usual teenage thing. I dont really mind it. Almost every 18 year old has that problem. I try to stay in my room as much as I can. That reduces the quarrel rate tremendously.
#2 So mom doesnt hear well. The thing is she will not tell you when she doesnt understand what I am saying but just mutter yes or nod to pretend she understands perfectly well. That often leads to fights.
e.g. today while lunch.
I ask her to please put no food on my plate yet cause I d like to eat some salad before. She nods and matters yes and in the next instant puts stuff on my plate. I roll my eyes and she starts to yell at me a la you brat, you should learn to behave, wicked girl! yuk. Thank goodness dad was there - bad thing was that he started yelling too “show a bit tolerance!” which started a mature fight which mom ended with “now shut the fuck up.” which translates to: I am a poor woman who doesnt hear well and therefor I can do no wrong. Grrrrr.
#3 easy. I went mental - which is hard for a mom to take. Why does my kid have a mental desease or two? Is it my fault? Now she seems to take it as something I did to insult her. I went mad on purpose so to say. :rolleyes:
Now she is going mad too. She had the hell of a bad childhood and since I started to see a shrink she seems to have been thinking about it more often. (claiming she has no problem with it…) To me she seems more and more strange. Irritable and stuff.
Somehow it is my fault, but than I didnt take the decission to get depression and panic attacks, did I?
I hope I will never have children. My mom is a good mom, and I d probably be worse than her in that job. And she is giving me enough trouble already…
ranting does me good.