Let’s get one thing perfectly clear: I do not want to see anybody spitting on anything, ever again. Full stop.
Ugh. Was it a lubrication thing or a humiliation thing? I don’t mind it as a lubrication thing (mostly because you know they really used actual lube…they couldn’t pay ME enough to get sausaged without Wet) but I hate it when it’s used as a humiliation technique. I try to avoid those types of porn, but sometimes when I download something with a vague enough title, it shows up.
Amen.
What the hell is that about anyway? I’ve never heard a single person say they were into that.
It’s not really either. They just show the chick spitting all over the dork and then making trails with from their mouth to the penis. maybe it’s supposed to resemble ejaculate or something but that doesn’t explain why the dudes have to gob all over the vagina in return.
I am with you 100 percent. It’s gross. Then again, I never liked the “money shots” either so I figure I am atypical of hardcore porn fans generally.
Strangely enough, I like seeing images who are gagged and drooling because of it. Somehow it doesn’t seem as nasty.
Ewwwww…
Maybe because it’s a natural consequence of being gagged. While deliberately making an effort to spit copiously on someone’s delicates to make it look like the action’s wetter and sloppier than it really is, is just dorky. Trust me, Mr. Porn Man, I don’t expect a half gallon of various and sundry secretions to flow from me OR her in the course of the session. :eek:
Of course, I’m not even taking into account the fact that straight porn fellation is almost embarrassing to watch for me. I can’t even pinpoint what it is, other than to say it’s not a gay/straight sensibility thing, but a difference in…power. I think. Maybe. It just seems like the women in straight porn are a lot more objectified compared to the men than the same dynamic in gay porn. In straight porn, it always seems to me that the enthusiasm from the women is forced, whereas I don’t get that impression from the men in gay porn.
Eh, it’s weird. And I can’t articulate it. Bleah.
I don’t like seeing women get treated like crap in pornos, which is why I don’t like the majority of pornos. I don’t see anything erotic in most fellatio or anal scenes, two or more guys with one girl, or “facials.” It seems disrespectful at best, and violent at worst. The guys are usually these ugly assholes anyway, and the girls are just treated like pieces of meat, or thrown around like props. If I watch porn, it’s because I want to see beautiful fantasy women being worshipped like goddesses, not sad girls being used and abused. That’s why when I seek out porn, it tends to be of the “femdom” variety, where the women are in total control of sexual situations and do whatever they want to their male or female partners.
That’s the fun thing about porn. What secretly turns a school marm’s crank grosses out the most tolerant liberal. Personally I like school marms… Drooling.
I’ve never liked any kind of porn where either of the performers seem to not like what they’re doing. There are six kinds of porn:
- Super exaggerated contortions.
- “Remember, you’re doing this to get through college, just lay still”.
- The ones where it’s clearly making the female uncomfortable.
- “A gig’s a gig, a gag’s a gag”.
- “I’m lovin’ it!”
- Real.
Sometimes, I make ammends with the first one, but it’s not usual ("…to like porn of any kind, dadadadadadaaaaaaa!"… er, ahem). The last ones are the kind that I’m cool with. Good porn is out there. You just have to know what to look for. 
I too like to see the woman enjoying sex. I also like to see the man dominating, but not humiliating a woman. Yes, I know some people are unable to see the difference, or how it’s possible to dominate a woman without humiliating her. Add me to the crowd that doesn’t like the money shots.
I think I know what you mean, and I think I agree.
This ain’t for Cafe Society. I dunno where it’s for, but it ain’t for here. Cafe Society is for civil and civilized discussion of the arts. Yeah, OK, so erotica is a form of art, but drool ain’t.
Yes, because although “no means no” when a woman says it “yes” can never possibly mean “yes” when a woman says it. :rolleyes:
Eh, I enjoy the drooling, both IRL and in porn, but not so much the spitting in both.
As for money shots: I like them when the girl is clearly into it. Some girls, like my ex enjoy it. I never asked her why, but I think it was more a thing with her enjoying the feel and knowing that I was completely satisfied (aka she did well) than a dominance thing.
YMMV
We’ve had lots of threads about porn here. Either you missed them or there’s been a change in policy but I’ve seen worse things discussed in the Cafe without complaint.
:rolleyes: yourself. I never said all porn was rape. I never said all female porn stars are exploited. I never called for the end of all straight porn production. I just said that there’s an element in straight porn that I find uncomfortable. It’s one reason that I stopped watching straight porn once I became comfortable enough to not worry about “coming out” to the video store clerk.
I’m well aware that the women are the absolute STARS of straight porn and get paid much more than the male actors. I’m well aware that the straight porn industry is set up to accommodate the female stars. I have no beef with straight porn per se. I just find watching it uncomfortable.
My porn nit pick is that most of the women (wiiiiiiiide brush) are usually pretty hot. The men, on the other, tend to be beer belly havin, horse faced, and horse…hung individuals. I think I’d compromise that other inch or so for a better looking guy.
And to the cameraman: shut the fuck up!