You don’t have room?
YOU DON’T HAVE ROOM?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
And you’re calling someone else a dickhead?
She’s your fucking SISTER.
And you’re calling someone else a dickhead?
You think putting a little furniture in storage and buying a futon is preferable to sending her off to someone she’s not even related to? By blood or marriage anymore?
And you’re calling someone else a dickhead?
Oh, oh, here it is - you have to have a baby. NOW. That’s why your SISTER is being told she’s going to have to be shipped off to someone she’s not related to. By blood or marriage anymore.
And you’re calling someone else a dickhead?
Jesus freakin’ God, I’m sure glad my parents, whom I was estranged from at the time, didn’t feel that way when I was laid up in the hospital in a coma, and my son, on the verge of being orphaned (or so the prognosis went, thank God it was wrong) had no place to live.
For that matter, he and I lived together in a very small one-bedroom, one-bath house, yet we still cheerfully offered our home to a woman and her three kids for the winter because she needed extensive and expensive repairs to her gas plumbing and she had no place else to go (because, of course, all her friends with the 3- and 4-bedroom homes “didn’t have the room”). Fun? No! A real adjustment? Yes! But how could I say no when they were in dire straits? Sleeping on a warm floor was still better than sleeping in a cold bed. Eating a hot meal with your plate perched in your lap is better than eating cold cereal at your own table every night. Having to schedule your bathroom time to take a hot shower was better than taking a cold shower whenever you wanted in the winter.
Sleeping on the couch at your brother’s house is better than being shipped off to someone you have no ties to.
We in the western part of the world have it so cushy we’ve forgotten how the rest of the world cheerfully lives. Unless you are already six people in an efficiency apartment, I have a really, really tough time believing you “don’t have the room”. Even then, since there is apparently an estate big enough to fight over, that would be an excuse because presumably you could use the funds for a bigger place. “Nest egg” is all fine and good, but you aren’t doing any favors for her if she’s treated like a ward of the state becuase there aren’t enough funds to accommodate her now.
I think you need to get your own priorities in order before you start calling anyone else dickhead.
Oh, and, that “family” you HAVE to start RIGHT NOW? I hope to God, if something happens to you, whoever you choose to raise them in your place “has the room”.