Oh, my idiot cousin (late thirties, mother of four, never married, but currently engaged - to a guy who got out of prison on July 1, meth charges. Prior sentences were for car theft and burglary.) Anyway, D thinks that I’m her ally, because we both found ‘twue wuv’ a bit later in life. So she basically asked me whether I thought that she and her Boo are meant to be. As it turns out, I don’t know her Boo, but my husband has arrested him two or three times, and I mentioned that I really might overlook a single youthful theft, but meth? No. I wouldn’t have that person around my kids.
But I sort of phrased it as “hell no. Et cetera.”