Well, I hate to start another depressing thread, but I’ve just received some awful news. In light of the fact that I missed the original voicemail message, and didn’t hear it until tonight, and that I don’t have the means to get myself back out to California to say goodbye properly, I feel I should do something.
I have just heard that one of my old friends has shot himself. I haven’t talked to the guy in at least a year or two, but he was a great guy, and was there for me when I needed help. I wish I could have been there for him.
This is sad news - I hope Chad has found peace.
I feel for you, and having never been through your experience, I cannot imagine your pain. Hang in there.
I’m so sorry. Feeling helpless is terrible. If I can quote what Col. Potter said to Hawkeye in MASH*, “Rule number 1 is People die.’ Rule number 2 is ‘Doctors can’t change rule number 1.’” We cannot save everyone, only do what we can. You have done what you could. E-mail me or call me if you need me.