I think you need to reread Manda Jo’s post about how sick she is of people making sex into something far dirtier than it is. So you masturbated in her house? So what??? So you maybe had a hard-on from thinking about her? So what??? You didn’t rape her Pretty Pretty Princess Doll, did you? Did you hump her baby sister? Did you steal a pair of her mom’s panties?
You’re a teenage boy, for God’s sake!!! You will occasionally do stupid things out of lust and desire. That’s just part of puberty!
Shrew, it’s actually worse than you think. Email me and I’ll tell you about it.
Either way, I’ve lost 4 good friends because if it. Probably more to come (ack, must stop punning).
I feel sorry for you.
Just remember, things can only get better now!
Actually, this thread reminds me of something that happened to my ex-boyfriend in year 9. He masturbated at school and wiped the results onto some guy he hated. Of course, the guy went to the teacher and told him what happened, but my ex claimed that he had merely wiped some clag. Then the teacher took a cautious sniff that that was the end of that excuse! :eek:
He was a social pariah after that, but it wasn’t so much the incident as the culmination of several months’ worth of self-destructive behaviour.
If you’re certain that you’re going to become the laughingstock of the school, and it’s going to make you absolutely miserable, is it possible to transfer? Or perhaps meet with one of your closer friends and try to state your case?
Good luck.
ahem I meant to say “and that was the end of that excuse”
You know what? I think I understand how these things get out of hand.
When I was in high school, I was close friends with a guy named Brian. Everyone called him “silver bullet” and I didn’t know why. Finally, he confessed to me that when he was in middle school or even late elementary school, he’d been working on an art project or something like that - and it involved silver paint. He’d gotten it on his hands and went into the bathroom. He masturbated and got caught with a silver bullet, so to speak. We laugh like hell at that now because we’ve all done something like that - just some of us don’t get caught. Their laughter and teasing is just another way of saying, “PHEW, thank GOD it wasn’t me this time.” Eh - friends get over that shit and learn to laugh at your foibles.
You hang in there. If you didn’t do something truly offensive and it was just sort of stupid, well, hell, okay already. But don’t beat yourself to hell about it.
Tibs.
Lovely, a prude and a sheep/chickenshit(depending on if her sister decided the verdict or simply passed it on because Jane is too much of a coward/prude to speak to you face to face). In ten years look this thread up again. You’re better off.
Don’t worry about what the people at school think, if they’re real friends they won’t care. If they’re not real friends, they don’t matter.
Steven