The thing you hate most that people say

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Let’s make a list of the worst off-putting things that people can say to ruin a beautiful friendship. One by one–the worst first. Please copy so that we can see them in all their terror.

  1. I know you’re busy now.
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]Let’s make a list of the worst off-putting things that people can say to ruin a beautiful friendship. One by one–the worst first. Please copy so that we can see them in all their terror.

  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
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  1. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
  15. I’ll keep it in mind.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
  15. I’ll keep it in mind.
  16. It is what it is.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
  15. I’ll keep it in mind.
  16. It is what it is.
  17. It’s not you, it’s me.
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Oh, damn, somebody beat me to that. Grrr.

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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
  15. I’ll keep it in mind.
  16. It is what it is.
  17. It’s not you, it’s me.
  18. You’ve got a way with words.
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
  15. I’ll keep it in mind.
  16. It is what it is.
  17. It’s not you, it’s me.
  18. You’ve got a way with words.
  19. Been there, done that. (How about being punched in the mouth? Been there? Done that?!)
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  1. I know you’re busy now.
  2. Don’t want to hurt your feelings
  3. I’ll be perfectly honest with you: no, you won’t.
  4. I didn’t mean for it to happen.
  5. It’s no big deal.
  6. We need to talk…
  7. Try to see things another way.
  8. Have you tried reaching out to (him/her/them)? Only to choke the shit out of him.
  9. Let’s keep in touch.
  10. I don’t mean to interrupt, but…I’m gonna!
  11. It’s not you, it’s me. (It’s you)
  12. Can I offer you some constructive criticism?
  13. Can I ask you a question? (You just DID!)
  14. You know what YOU need?
  15. I’ll keep it in mind.
  16. It is what it is.
  17. It’s not you, it’s me.
  18. You’ve got a way with words.
  19. Been there, done that. (How about being punched in the mouth? Been there? Done that?!)
  20. No offense, but . . .