do females actually enjoy giving blowjobs

Pop Rocks can be amusing.

Need answer fast; zoo closes in half an hour.

They can leave scratches if you are not careful.
edited to add: …or so I’ve been told.

:slight_smile: Social expectations don’t figure in my sex life.

I love it, it turns me on - my lover can lay back and relax for once - he’s pretty busy during most if not all other sexual activities.

Based on the sample of women I was intimate with back when I was single, some women enjoy it a great deal, others not very much at all, and some are somewhere in between. As Cecil notes, some women experience orgasms from giving head (see second bullet point); I’d say they enjoy it quite a bit.

With some men I enjoyed it more than with others. With my ex-husband, my favorite thing was 69, with him on top. I loved it, and wanted it all the time.

No matter what problems we had, sex wasn’t sure wasn’t one of them. :wink:

One thing women and men have in common is we like to feel successful as lovers. If the man is good about showing his pleasure at the way she is doing it she is more likley to be happy about doing it. I have found some women will look up at me with these devious look in there eyes like " I am controlling you dumbshit" I am more than happy to play along.

But if she’s just been eating spicy Thai food, not so amusing. :frowning:

I have known ladies who claimed in all seriousness that they enjoyed giving head better than they did having intercourse. One such lady hung out in my regular dive bar in West Texas. It was not uncommon for her to trade her fellow customers a BJ for a ride home. Popular lass.

This is pretty much how I feel about it. I love the aspect of control, so I enjoy giving them. I would not enjoy it very much with a partner who is not animated about it.

You really need to get laid.

It’s worse than that. There’s a law or something that says you can’t break even, either.

Nor quit the game.

Wow, seeing how this thread is about blowjobs, I though this reply was the beginning of some great story. (Really? One time when my sister was in hospital and we were visiting, the nurse asked people to leave and my mother quite clearly asked if the patient minded…)

But I was wrong.

And, similarly, I happen to know that men are less likely to perform such favours for the kind of dehumanizing creatures who get butthurt by the word “females.”

YMMV.

I can’t speak for women, but I’m a bisexual man and I enjoy giving them. It’s not only because of the textures and playfulness involved. I happen to enjoy it because as a male I know what feels good. I internalize what I’m doing to someone else (imagining how it would feel to be done to me) and it adds to my enjoyment of the act.

If I were a woman, I wouldn’t be able to understand why the things that work work and why the things that don’t don’t.

But I have male anatomy and can say “I know exactly how you’re feeling right now”, and that makes it fun.

For me, personally, I give to the other person what I would want done to myself. Even if I don’t receive the same treatment, and I rarely do, it makes me feel good that someone I want happy is living my own fantasy.

I don’t know if other bisexual or gay men feel similarly.

Dave

My girlfriend claims she enjoys it. I don’t always take people at their word, though. Actions speak louder than words. And judging by her actions, she really, really enjoys it.

First of all, there’s no one answer for “females”. We don’t all think/feel alike.

This female does not enjoy giving someone a blow job. I just don’t. I will, on occasion, do it because I enjoy making my partner feel good, but I don’t get “into it”, I don’t experience enjoyment (beyond making someone else happy), and if I never give another one I will not miss them at all.

Some women do enjoy giving blow jobs.

Some do or don’t depending on their mood, and some may do it because it’s socially expected, just like shaving their legs or wearing make-up is socially expected. Some people enjoy fulfilling social expectations. Some couldn’t care less about them.

When it don’t about a particular female’s position on the matter I suggest you ask her directly.

I know a girl like that, she says she likes giving oral because of the sense of power, but she refuses to receive oral, basically for the same reason.

With all due respect, and at the risk of a mod action, I have to just say: This statement is straightup horse hockey. People are warned, mod noted, suspended and banned for the use of perfectly legitimate english words. Troll, racist and cunt are all english words, but they are verboten for reasons.

Reacting to the word “female” IS part of the answer to the question. Being marginalized and dehumanized by the use of a word and the attitude behind it is going to make someone not likely to want to suck you off.

Besides, it’s a stupid question. Females and women are not some monolithic group that all thinks alike. Not all women like dick. And not all those who give head are women.

The question should have been: Do you get pleasure out of performing oral sex on someone and why?

The instruction was to take any issue with the terminology it to the Pit. If you have a problem with the instruction, take it to ATMB. Don’t argue about it in here.

Stringbean, this applies to you, as well, especially considering your comment came well after Loach’s mod note.