So do they enjoy it or do they enjoy it? Um, I’m going to go with they enjoy it, I guess. Unless they don’t enjoy it.
I mean, I don’t enjoy giving a blowjob to a dildo, if that’s what you’re asking. I don’t have sexually receptive nerves in the back of my throat.
Here’s the real only true One Sex Trick: the body’s most powerful sexual organ is the brain. Seriously. If he’s enjoying it, I’m enjoying it, at least until my jaw starts to ache. If he’s not enjoying it, I’m not enjoying it. It’s not, for me, about the physical sensations in my mouth, it’s the mental, emotional and hormonal influence of the entire encounter. That’s hot, and enjoyable.
It’s one of those threads when you realise a lot of people on here are pretty weird.
The OP is just a young guy getting his head around the world. Pun intended.
OP: yep, hetro females - woman or ‘girl’ (lets go crazy and say 15-year old’s are often sexually active) - often enjoy giving head. Even somewhat randomly on a Saturday night or a festival. But don’t forget respect and dignity at all times. People is people.
IME, some women hate, detest are just plain terrified of a man’s cum. Having someone’s head jerk back like they’re having a seizure at the first moment of pre-cum is not conducive to an enjoyable bj, IMO.
There’s quite a bit of variation, but “salty pancake batter” is still the best general description I’ve ever heard (for semen). Mostly salty, a little tiny bit sweet, with a hint of bread products.
Some guys, particularly smokers, have cum that is fairly unpleasant tasting and burns my mouth and throat. Icky. I usually contrive a different ending for them, 'cause it can really hurt and linger. So, guys, consider that if she doesn’t swallow, it may not be because she’s not game, but because your spunk in particular tastes dreadful.
Similar to what pizzaguy reports, I enjoy seeing (and hearing etc.) my partner enjoying herself. So it’s not something I tolerate for her sake, or do just to make her feel good. I’m not sure what the difference between “enjoying that she’s enjoying it” and “enjoying it vicariously” really is, anyway. I don’t know how representative I am, but I don’t think I’m wildly unrepresentative (though I wouldn’t, would I).
Since women are a lot like people, I assume the same applies for women going down on men.
If I were having sex with someone who disliked it I certainly wouldn’t say “but baby, it’s socially expected.”
Didn’t even know what a snowball was, until I just read the “Equality in Sex” thread. Oh… Uh, nope. Don’t think I’d appreciate it.
(Sigh… I’m one of those “fastidious” jerks. I’d want to wear a condom if being given oral sex…and when performing it, I’d want to do it through a protective sheet – saran wrap? Condom-rubber sheeting? I’ve read that some cut a condom open and use it as a sheet. Mega-sigh. Of course, this is probably a big part of why I’m still a virgin at my age…)
(“Sex is so messy!” “Only if you’re doing it right!”)
Dental dam, if you’re being all proper, but Saran Wrap works in a pinch. Put a couple of drops of lube on the underside to help it stay on and make it feel like it’s not there. A cut open condom is theoretically okay, but tastes pretty awful and may cause irritation of the mouth if you’re sensitive to nonoxynol-9 (the most common spermicide used in pre-lubed condoms.)
