Do homosexuals find heterosexual sex offensive

I agree. Penises are icky and I don’t want one in me.

Hey, Sampiro - Does that mean I, as a lesbian, can get a nice, butch-ish DeWalt Yellow card? :smiley:

Yeah, I have to admit that penises are rather… unattractive. But, I don’t have any problem with somebody else finding them fascinating! I find “Lesbian Porn for Straight Guys” equally bleccch, though - those women are so weird! :eek:

I hear you! I’ll watch guy/guy, girl/guy, and girl/girl IF it comes from a lesbian-oriented porn maker. “Lesbian Porn for Straight Guys” just makes me think WTF?! Those nails are WAAAAAAY too long to go in there.

Oddly, as a teen I had a very one-night heterosexual stand, and felt like bathing in alcohol afterwards. It did NOT feel right to me whatsoever. Fast forward 30 years later in San Francisco, and me and my partner have an, ahem, lovely evening with a bisexual gentleman-- and I had quite a bit of fun. So obviously, it doesn’t gross me out one bit, but OTOH there’s something absolutely wonderful about sex with another female that I don’t have with the guys. I really think it’s that I just love the feel and response of a female body.

These days, it’s interesting. I have a buddy who’s a transman who didn’t have bottom surgery, and if anything happened, I feel like I’d have the same reaction to him as I did to the bisexual guy. OTOH, I have a pre-op MTF friend who definitely sparks that sense of female sensuality.

Then there’s all the cute lil’ genderqueers. You just never know what you’re going to end up grabbing.

My apologies, Otto, I certainly didn’t mean to offend. You’re right, that was a poor choice of words.

I don’t get it why saying gay sex seems repulsive should be offensive. Its IMHO forum… but fine.

Anyway… I did wonder why I feel gay sex is repulsive to me… and its a lot about body hair and masculine roughness. Women have very soft skin and little hair. I hate having a beard myself… and I’d never want to brush on another man’s beard, legs or other hairy or rough parts.
(Yes very hairy women put me off… )

So back to the topic…

I’d like to point out that many heterosexuals do not find homosexual sex offensive…in some cases, just the opposite. Me for example. I’ve sought out homosexual porn…and my bisexual boyfriend…oh my.

I’ve even gotten turned on by lesbian porn (but not so much "lesbian"porn…hetersexual women obviously having sex for the purpose of the camera, usually to turn on men doesn’t do much for me.)

Which brings me to my point, which I think is related to the OP…or at least an interesting question. Are their homosexuals who seek out hetrosexual porn? Who get turned on by heterosexual sex as I do by homosexual sex? Even if you know it’s not what you want to do?

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Whoops! I missed that. I just came back to say that very thing. :slight_smile:

Not that I wouldn’t mind some other opinions.

(And Homebrew I could not possibly agree with that post more. Let’s get together and watch porn. We can vary it. Even stuff with girls in it!!)

When does my gold card arrive? Although that diamond encrusted platinum one sounds good too. :slight_smile:

I would fall solidly into the camp of ‘eww, that’s gross’, at least as far as the actual sex goes. Although I don’t care for seeing any couples gay or straight making out in public. I find that to be in extremely poor taste. I do find women to be beautiful, but it’s more like admiring a painting. I know they are beautiful, but I don’t want to put any part of me into any part of them.

I mean, that is, how common is that?

What? The toaster insn’t enough for you???

Toaster, toaster??? My dear betenoir, I got the toaster YEARS ago…my last award was the month in hawaii. I figured I should be at least up to the gold card by now.

LOL. Pretty normal.

Consider the number of straight men who make gay porn. Viagra has been a boon to the “gay for pay” industry.

I have to admit that there is plenty of hetero porn that turns me on too. It doesn’t have much to do with the women in it, but hey, any port in a storm sometimes…lol.

I would definitely have to consider myself a Kinsey 5.5.

Does that qualify me for the silver card?

Hee hee heee…Yeah “pretty normal” is about how I’ve alway thought of myself.

And no I don’t know about the card but you might get a silver plated toaster. (Sorry Antinor01 best I can do)
(Anyway nice to hear of gay guys who are…polymorphicallly perverseve? like i am. The more good healthyperversity of all kinds the better. )

Oooh! Can it do bagels? I like appliances that are versatile…

Sexuality can be such a fluid thing for so many people. And hot naked men are hot naked men. Just because there are naked women with them should not diminish my enjoyment!

What I don’t get is the (mainly) straight guy reaction of “eww, urk, bluck, grgle-umph-I’m gonna barf” reaction.

I’m famous for making bad analogies, but I can’t help it. Is it really the worst thing you’ve ever seen? I mean, if you’re watching the health channel, are you incapable of watching an open heart surgery without barfing? What about the Discovery channel. You surf across an episode about elephant mating. You see two elephants mating, does this make you barf? I mean, no one is thinking, “this will turn straight guys on, or this will make straight guys barf because they’re not into elephant fucking.”

Can’t you just see it and go, “huh. Two guys going at it. Whatever, not into it myself, it’s a good story anyway.”

Oh.

Well, I guess that explains why the security guards at the DeYoung were so pissed with me.

Just to be clear, I don’t have any problem or visceral reaction to two guys whatsoever. My reaction would be pretty much as you describe. There’s nothing at all off-putting about two guys having gay sex. What would be off-putting is me having gay sex. Small, but important difference.

I’m glad you see what I’m saying. People ought to be able to read/watch a story and identify with the protagonists. Whether it’s a man and a women, two women, two men, a cat and a dog, a giant mutant gorilla and a ditzy blond - people should be able to think, "I totally identify with pursuing my loved one and finally getting a chance to be with him/her/it, without having the “OMG I’m gonna barf” reaction.

Well put.