In this thread, two posters mentioned that they feel guilty about having erotic dreams about someone other than your partner. I’d just like to know how common this is.
I never feel guilty. It’s nothing I can control anyway. I’ve dreamt about killing people, but that doesn’t make me a murderer, right? In fact, when I or Pricegal have an erotic dream, we usually tell each other. I find it very arousing.
Why feel guilty? I’m not responsible for my actions in dreams (that’s part of the fun).
Nope. Its a dream. No guilt there.
No guilt at all. Doesn’t bother me that my partner does, either.
Sometimes it even gives us inspiration for the real thing!
Heck no. I always sorta look at it as, “Hey, so that’s what my subconscious thinks of sex. Huh.”
Not at all, though I did feel guilty about not having an erotic dream once.
The scene: my room. An attractive friend of mine and I were sitting on my bed talking, joking. She seemed very attracted to me. She moved in for a kiss. I stopped us saying “No, wait.” At that point I woke up saying “What the heck?” I guess that it was a “just friends” dream, but I’m suprised that I was the one to set the limit.
Guilty, no, uncomfortable, sometimes. It depends on who ELSE is in the dream.
I was able to score a few points with my wife because of an erotic dream. A nice looking woman was hitting on me during the dream and it was obvious what she wanted, but I turned her down because I’m married. I told my wife about it the next morning and she was rather pleased that I can’t cheat even in my sleep.
Oddly enough my erotic dreams are surprisingly mild, involving hugging/kissing/cuddling, etc. My DAYDREAMS, however, have made me gasp out loud and blush a few times!
Hell no. In my dreams I can have the monkeys and the mayo there. No way Welbywife is gonna put up with that crap in real life.
Mine are like voguevixens. I do not feel quilty for erotic dreams which are quite rare for me anyway. I have however had a daydream that I ended up feeling guilty over.
Well, I never felt guilty about David Bowie, Deanna Troi, and I cant remember, at least one of them happened while in a relationship.
I do feel guilty about my current dreams, maybe because they are so intense, or because its someone I know, or I dont know why.
Godo(t) mojo wouldnt care. I know that.
On the other hand, I find it uncomfortable, that someone who yes, I still know, but have hardly spoken to in at least 20 years (and havent been close to since second grade when he got “boy cooties”)
Or maybe Im not feeling guilty, Im just hot and bothered…