I had a very minor argument on this subject last night.
While I am generally willing to do almost anything he wants to do, I have a hard time feigning enjoyment or enthusiasm for something that I don’t particularly enjoy. He gets a little upset that I am not more excited about doing these things. (We’re not talking about anything dirty here
I said it’s not fair to get frustrated with me just because I don’t like certain things, especially if I’m still willing to do them. People simply enjoy different things. And although I’m sure it’s better to do stuff with people who are equally enthusiastic, I’m not the kind of person to be fake about it either.
And just to be clear, I do these things willingly and I absolutely do not complain, pout, play the martyr, etc. It’s just that I’m not gushing with anticipation at the thought of doing them and I think that is perhaps too obvious.