Thread subtitle: How did this get aired in 1994?
I will admit that I loved this song and video, “Freak Me” when I first saw it in 1994, when I was 28. It’s credited to “Dis N Dat”, but it’s actually a collaboration between DND, the 69 Boys, and 95 South. The video:
Ooo, looking back to when I was 28, all I can remember about the appeal was …
- Hot female rappers
- Pretty damn good rapping and a good groove
- Hot female rappers
Watching it again, 21 years later, at age 49 …
- Hot female rappers
- Pretty damn good rapping and a good groove (much better than what’s on the radio today, and I’ve always preferred “rapid-fire” rapping over today’s slow “grind” rapping)
- Hot female rappers, expressing aggressive female sexuality, and holy crap, how was this allowed to be broadcast by MTV in fucking 1994?
I mean, I still love the song, and the lyrics themselves are somewhat ambiguous and mostly “safe for radio”. But the video is downright explicit, making it blatantly obvious what the lyrics are referring to, which I kinda didn’t notice so much 21 years ago. Funny how the filters of time and experience can change how you look at something:
A woman demanding cunnilingus (“If you come back bring a lunch, cuz we’re gonna eat out tonight”)
“Whoop, there it is”, while the young woman speaking the line parts her legs and points almost directly at her girly bits.
One of the male rappers suggesting a threesome (“Well it’s two-for-one, y’all - I can do a little bit of Dis and a little bit of Dat”)
A woman declaring exactly how much she likes sex: “I’m a superfreak!”
Erm, “I’ve got some freaky stuff to do. Can I do my freaky stuff wit you?” (Well, at least he asks permission.)
“So I scoped out the dance floor
Caught a roughneck looking my way
He moved his wrist like, ‘Yo, what’s up?’
It was time to play
He walked up to me and said,
‘Yo, love, what’s the haps?’
We hit the floor, he whipped it out
I could tell this brother was stacked
He said, ‘let’s go’, I said, ‘oh no
Honey, it’s not that easy
But if you play your cards right
I might let you freak me’”
Oh yeah, indecent exposure!
“Yeah, I need a freak!”, again, while parting her legs and pointing significantly at her girly bits.
And then I also noticed something else in the video, something I didn’t spot 21 years ago, but which jumped out at me now that I’m older and wiser: one of the male rappers, in the club scenes, is macking on a pretty girl with stereotypical '90s hair. She has her arms folded across her chest, and looks really uncomfortable, and I’m thinking, “Wow, UNWANTED SEXUAL ADVANCES”. Right there in a very sexual video.
So, again, how did this get aired in 1994?
Also, why was Dis N Dat not more successful? They were good. Almost Salt n Pepa good.