And that makes him any more mature than me, how?
Sorry if I seem testy. I left a lot of the details out of the OP, for the sake of anonymity. The friend in question is a well known conductor in NYC, and I was just overwhlemed that someone who I’d been dating for five weeks would be, in my opinion, disrespectful to anyone I introduced him to, let alone a good personal and professional friend.
I agree with Scumpup as well. Something I find myself doing disturbingly often these days.
Sorry to be harsh, but you acted like a petulant drama queen and dragged your boyfriend into the mess. He acted innapropriately, but I am sure the poor guy was just befuddled at what exactly you expected him to do. If I was him I would think that being taken back would be the last thing on my mind.
And now you are saying you were upset that he would offer to fight a “good personal and professional friend”. Fer chrissakes woman, you make it sound like there was no prelude to this mess. You dragged everyone together into this drama and I am quite sure your ‘hysterics’ included characterizing your “good friend” as a steaming asshole to your boyfriend. He did his best to fill his role and he got shat on for it.
I hafta agree with fruitbat …everyone in this scenario needs to grow up.
OP-stop having hysterics. Hysterics are silly and can get out of hand. Sounds to me like you truly had hysterics, otherwise you would have told Jason that you were mad at yourself for screwing up the order of music for your best friend .
Frankly if I were Jason, I would have spent that month that I got the cold shoulder looking for another girl friend. You seriously overreacted to an attempt to “defend” you-however misguided that attempt was.
Best friend-spare me the creative temperment, please. Who doesn’t check the work that they are responsible for before it leaves their hands? I reread my charting and med records before I hand them over to the noc nurse–you need to look over your music all by your own self, before you start conducting. (duh)
Jason-John Wayne is dead. So is Sir Galahad. Give the OP a hankie and a pat on the back. There is no need to take anything outside, ever. Wth? The world has no need of fearless heros of this ilk.
Somehow I think that all involved like their small opera in three acts. The rest of us would have left at the interval.
Sorry if this sounds so harsh–but when I first read it, I thought, oh, they’re all young…Huh. Humph. Sounds like you all are adults and need to embrace adulthood…
Wait, back the truck up a second - your relationship with your best friend sounds like the one you should be asking for advice with, not Jason. It doesn’t sound very healthy from what you’ve told us here. Is this conductor your friend, or someone that you idolize and will accept any kind of treatment from? Cause I’m getting a vibe from you that it’s the latter. Jason sounds kind of like a side note here in this story.
Tell me something - are you attracted to your best friend, the conductor?