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#1
It sounds like he needs a specialized obedience class. He needs to learn who’s the boss now that his original boss is gone. I would almost guess that in your dog’s grief, he’s acting out and maybe your stepfather hasn’t stepped into the alpha role.
My local trainer offers all kinds of obedience, not just regular obedience. They have special classes for shelter rescues because they often have lacked proper training in the past but they also offer rehab training for dogs who need to be re-socialized and reprogrammed.
It doesn’t hurt to call a trainer, the call is free and often any evaluation they offer is free too.
#2
Exercise, consistent discipline, & more supervised socialization, that way he can learn to be with other dogs/people & it is a chance to show him his unwanted behavior.
I’ve not had much experience with this either, but the above is what I would try.
#3
Hmm, tough question. It seems to be he is still trying to get used to the all of the new houses, and loosing your mother, this may take some time settling him in. You should try taking him to a training school to help him get back to normal. Well, good luck, and I’m very sorry about your mother
-Lexie ;
(she obviously missed the beginning of my post where I explained that I was posting for a friend…)
#4
(This guy is one of our experienced dog trainers there-he trained a national champion Schutzhund dog. He & I often butt heads tho because our training techniques are soooooo different… But I will say HE IS GOOD)
This sounds more like typical terrier animal aggression, not territory issues. The problem with dogs like that is that they are ALLOWED to express this side of them without being corrected and then, with time, it gets out of hand.
Meds are not going to do anything for him, that I know. The problem here is that his aggression has spilled out to humans and that can get dangerous. There are not that many options left…but, pick one of the two I will give you and I am not sure a person who is not strong enough will deal with either well.
One: The next time he even so much as “looks” at anything aggressively, you string him up by his choker and bring him to eye level while telling him to “knock the sht off”.
I mean every time, all the time, not when it has escalated to the point that he is foaming at the mouth, but, when he thinks about it.
When he realizes that his life itself is in danger, he will start to change his mind about acting like an idiot.
The other is either keeping this dog under TOTAL control, no accidental meetings with people or dogs and that will be hard or just put him down.
These dogs are accidents looking for a place to happen and it is the humans that have allowed this behavior to start and manifest.
I am sure that some people here will tell you all about behaviorists BS and feeding the dog treats when he flairs up, but, that will just fuel his desire to act like an idiot. Choose and put into effect. Hope I helped!