I’m with zoid; if somebody’s expecting you to read their mind they better be intimate enough that they’re sucking your dick. He’s a dick and browbeating you because you let him. Get a set and walk. You may have empathy issues you need to examine but nobody has to just sit there and be put down and lectured endlessly. You may have other needs you’re afraid won’t be met but you won’t know until you change the scenery and see what’s out there. Real world? Adult? Sometimes “family” has to be put on the back burner and left to stew. Seek out people who make you feel good, not bad.
Your roommate has appalling manners, not to mention a poor understanding of the value and purpose of basic social graces. You’re not unreasonable. It’s time for a new roommate.
Exactly. And while you’re at it, give him a nice neck rub. Clean yourself up so you look nice and pert. After a hard day’s work, he shouldn’t come home to a drab roommate. Let him tell you about his day before unloading your burdens on him. He’s been working hard.
Then, serve him his dinner with a cheerful smile, taking care not to burn anything. After dinner, his favorite dessert, and then bring him his slippers and the afternoon paper to read, and fill his pipe with his favorite tobacco, and light it for him.
Why on earth did you listen to him rant?
Why are planning to bring up the gf thing next time he has a conniption? Just walk away.
SHE was bad mojo? Sounds like a perfect fit for him.
I think you thought you would have some idyllic roomie situation. I think your roomie thought that a butler-roomie would be ideal.
Or that bottle of beer before you bring it to him 
Joking of course. Your roommate is a jackass, hope you can find your way to a better living situation.